I am wondering what everyones ideal husband or wife would be if they could choose it, and if u are married, then just dream, unless u are with that perfect someone. lol. post what you would like to find in husband or wife that make them perfect for you.
Rollback Post to RevisionRollBack
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
Humans are imperfect beings. A perfect soul mate is a creation of romantic fiction and they are just as real as unicorns. Sure, you can get pretty well along with someone, but no-one is perfect. Even *insert some attractive man/woman here* will annoy the living shit out of you on bad days.
This.
I have only been married a few years but the thing that makes me happy in the relationship is knowing that our goals are very similar in the important areas. We have a shared worldveiw in faith, finances, philanthropy, politics and child rearing. Although finding each other physically attractive is a healthy lubricant to our happiness!
I just want to make my future wife happy, and know that she appreciates it. And in the process I hope she does the same. A happy wife is a happy life right? I don't know haha. I would like to share a lot in common(interests, goals and such), but definitely have our differences. I am not all about looks but I love a cute face with pretty eyes, along with dark hair. It would also be a HUGE plus if they knew how to cook and took some pride in it. With the last girl I was with, her idea of cooking consisted of ramen noodles, green beans, or chinese takeout, and never ever EVER did she do the dishes, not once(through out 2 years). I learned a lot from that experience, unfortunately knowing when it's the right time to leave came afterwards.
I think for anyone married, such as myself, the answer to this question will be the person they are with (that's why we married them). So then the question becomes why are they perfect for you. Obviously, this is all personal as everyone has different traits and qualities that they like in their partner.
For me, it's not about having similar likes. Interests come and go and can by no means be beneficial to a stable relationship. Even things like life goals and religion can change in time. To rely on this common ground for the basis of a relationship is questionable.
As mentioned earlier, nobody is perfect and it is loving someone for their imperfections that makes them perfect for you. Essentially, having unconditional love for each other. This is not to say that you won't fight from time to time and even get one each other's last nerve occasionally, but at the end of the day, you still love each other for who they are and even who they will become.
Rollback Post to RevisionRollBack
Find any Diablo news? Contact me or anyone else on the News team
Ya, a friend asked me last night and i finally came up with my answer. lol. I told him i want a wife that will complete me because when single it is like you are missing a piece of yourself. I want someone that will be able to fit comfortably into that piece and just not be wedged in there like a lot of relationships (if u get my meaning lol) it would be nice if she had a few of the same interests as me like football, video games and such. not much about the outside. it is what is on the inside that counts. eventhough i can cook i would also like someone who would be able to cook as well. lol
Rollback Post to RevisionRollBack
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
I think for anyone married, such as myself, the answer to this question will be the person they are with (that's why we married them). So then the question becomes why are they perfect for you. Obviously, this is all personal as everyone has different traits and qualities that they like in their partner.
For me, it's not about having similar likes. Interests come and go and can by no means be beneficial to a stable relationship. Even things like life goals and religion can change in time. To rely on this common ground for the basis of a relationship is questionable.
As mentioned earlier, nobody is perfect and it is loving someone for their imperfections that makes them perfect for you. Essentially, having unconditional love for each other. This is not to say that you won't fight from time to time and even get one each other's last nerve occasionally, but at the end of the day, you still love each other for who they are and even who they will become.
Show this post to your wife and she'll be brushing your hair back and feeding you grapes with an admirable smile. That was really beautiful.
Like your earlier post. I dont think people are perfect until they find that someone special. that is when people become perfect in your eyes, but you first have to find that someone.
Rollback Post to RevisionRollBack
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
That's a tough one, seriously, for us still not married. The doubt if we make the right call will always exist until we get married.
For me, it's not about being interested in the same things, very much as Scyber pointed out. I don't even want her to understand why i enjoy certain things. Just to accept me for who I am. Caring for each other is also essential. Understanding each other's needs and supporting the choices we make. That's pretty much it i think. It doesn't have to be really complicated.
Bottom line is that i want my future wife to be with me, support my choices and for myself to do the exact same thing. I want her to complete me, not be the same as me (i'd kill her or she'd kill me if that was the case :P).
That said, with all our imperfections i think i'm in the right relationship for that right now. We just need some more time to make sure. But we're already thinking about it.
I am recently married (2 weeks now)
Objectively perfection is an illusion. But my wife is perfect in a subjective sense. She is perfect in my eyes.
Thus until you are subjected to the right person, objectively listing perfection criteria isn’t realistic. We don’t know what we want until we have it.
I can’t compare a perfection list to my current wife... because my list has changed since I met her, and she is now perfection to me.
Humans are imperfect beings. A perfect soul mate is a creation of romantic fiction and they are just as real as unicorns.
How do you determine what perfect is? I'm not sure I know what perfect is.
Rollback Post to RevisionRollBack
"I want to say something but I'll keep it to myself I guess and leave this useless post behind to make you aware that there WAS something... "
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
How do you determine what perfect is? I'm not sure I know what perfect is.
I'm not sure whether perfect can be defined as anything else but "without flaws; flawless" in this context.
Flaws are an universal human trait, and as such, perfection most definitely is not a human trait.
However, I'm not sure whether I'd want humans to be perfect. Our imperfections are what makes us human in the first place -- without them we would be purely logical input/output machines.
I'm sorry Don but that is a circular argument. The word "flaw" is still subjective.
Rollback Post to RevisionRollBack
"I want to say something but I'll keep it to myself I guess and leave this useless post behind to make you aware that there WAS something... "
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
First roll: Barbarian!
This.
I have only been married a few years but the thing that makes me happy in the relationship is knowing that our goals are very similar in the important areas. We have a shared worldveiw in faith, finances, philanthropy, politics and child rearing. Although finding each other physically attractive is a healthy lubricant to our happiness!
In progress: Barbarian, WD
For me, it's not about having similar likes. Interests come and go and can by no means be beneficial to a stable relationship. Even things like life goals and religion can change in time. To rely on this common ground for the basis of a relationship is questionable.
As mentioned earlier, nobody is perfect and it is loving someone for their imperfections that makes them perfect for you. Essentially, having unconditional love for each other. This is not to say that you won't fight from time to time and even get one each other's last nerve occasionally, but at the end of the day, you still love each other for who they are and even who they will become.
Find any Diablo news? Contact me or anyone else on the News team
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
Find any Diablo news? Contact me or anyone else on the News team
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
For me, it's not about being interested in the same things, very much as Scyber pointed out. I don't even want her to understand why i enjoy certain things. Just to accept me for who I am. Caring for each other is also essential. Understanding each other's needs and supporting the choices we make. That's pretty much it i think. It doesn't have to be really complicated.
Bottom line is that i want my future wife to be with me, support my choices and for myself to do the exact same thing. I want her to complete me, not be the same as me (i'd kill her or she'd kill me if that was the case :P).
That said, with all our imperfections i think i'm in the right relationship for that right now. We just need some more time to make sure. But we're already thinking about it.
Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions
Objectively perfection is an illusion. But my wife is perfect in a subjective sense. She is perfect in my eyes.
Thus until you are subjected to the right person, objectively listing perfection criteria isn’t realistic. We don’t know what we want until we have it.
I can’t compare a perfection list to my current wife... because my list has changed since I met her, and she is now perfection to me.
How do you determine what perfect is? I'm not sure I know what perfect is.
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
If you have really low standards, then lots of people are perfect for you
Find any Diablo news? Contact me or anyone else on the News team
Lol.
1) Not needy.
2) Listens.
That is all.
We need to start the DiabloFans personals.
I'm sorry Don but that is a circular argument. The word "flaw" is still subjective.
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ho5UvzNZC2o
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."