This is a tough one, thus the reason I have stayed out of it for so long, I knew what I wanted to say, just didn't quite know how to say it.
Alright, I read all of the articles but they didn't seem to sway me in any way.
Morally I would go with Absitnence, and don't start the 'oh you just can't get laid shit, thats not the case.' Abstinence is the only 100% way to not end up with your donk falling off or possibly worse, though Im not sure it could be worse than that, with Abstinence you don't have to worry about the possability of paying child support when your 18. Trust me, I know people that have had this happen to, they go strait out of school into work, working to pay for their screw up, condoms and birth control don't always work, would you take the chance at loosing well over $400 USD a month??
On the other side of the debate, I do agree with sex. Their are limits to it though, and you have to be careful about who you are sleeping with, more importantly who they have been sleeping with. I usually get yelled at when I use this line, its fairly common so a good bit of you prolly have heard it already.
Before you buy a car you test drive it don't you??? Same thing.
Before you spend $2,000 on that ring you wan't to know how it handles.
Sex is great, when your doing it for the right reasons, but it can turn abusive, sexaholic. Don't care about anything else, your job, food, just want sex and don't care from who or how.
P.S. im still not voting for anything.
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Look id just like to say 1 last thing about all of this.
Firstly, love does not mean marriage. I know people who are in love and have children but have never married. Being married is just the legal part.
Also, i think as long as people love each other, sex is fine at any age WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THE LAW. What does getting married mean? What is it, your fucking license to have sex? Thats rediculous.
The bottom line is, if 2 people wish to have sex and both have reasons for doing so and both actually want to, then there is no reason why they shouldnt. Its up to them to use protection if they want to or not. I know a friend of mine has never used a condom when he has sex with his girlfriend, she is on the pill and he pulls out (If your not quite sure what that means, think about it).
There is no equation here. Alot of you seem to think love + marriage = sex. Why cant it just be love...or even just because 2 people damn well want to fuck? Whats wrong with that? Its only human. If 2 people want to have sex, let em. The feeling is mutual, so there is nothing to say they shouldnt. Using protection is up to them.
Yeah, I would make them stop, So No premarital, Too many kids today are having kids, then that kid has to suffer cause his dad is 16 and his mom is, and they can't work
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The problem with this poll is that there's no middleground. There's no "Either can be good depending on the people involved and their maturity level, the precautions they take, their living situation, etc".
The problem with this poll is that there's no middleground. There's no "Either can be good depending on the people involved and their maturity level, the precautions they take, their living situation, etc".
It should be updated, my side on this has changed somewhat. I realize that marriage is too extreme for today, so I'm toning it down somewhat, but I still think you should have sex only with someone you love, not just any woman that will have you. It may be so for others, but for me it should be only for committed relationships, serious ones.
It is also obviously bias to one side. The way the poll is worded and the very fact that the links that were provided are from one site, as well as the way the thread is written, it is apparent that the thread trying to sway readers to the op's way of thinking.
I think that open sexuality is good, but you have to be mature about it. Then again I also think for myself and don't get swayed around by popular opinion, a 2 thousand year old book, or special intrest groups.
Basically, I say, if you are horney, fuck. But be mature about it.
Edit: Also, I refuse to vote in this poll as it is a bias poll, and is trying to sway people to one way of thinking via the wording.
I honetly don't get what's hard about slipping a condom on before fucking.
It's because you make it sound like all an individual needs to do is put a condom on. You're not emphasizing the role of two people during intercourse but just one.
It's because you make it sound like all an individual needs to do is put a condom on. You're not emphasizing the role of two people during intercourse but just one.
Well yea, there are female condoms as well, not a damn clue how they work but there are some out there. And also birth control, but that only protects against birth, not std's.
I'm curious if both could use a condom, the male having a male condom and the female having a female condom...
And just to show there -ARE- female condoms:
Not a damn clue how they work, like I said, but there ARE female condoms...
That's pretty lame. Few STD's actually equate death sentences. Even an AIDS patient with the right treatments can live a reasonably long life considering the seriousness of the syndrome.
Seriously though, I'm bailing out of this conversation. It's starting to feel like junior high sex ed all over again.
Alright, I read all of the articles but they didn't seem to sway me in any way.
Morally I would go with Absitnence, and don't start the 'oh you just can't get laid shit, thats not the case.' Abstinence is the only 100% way to not end up with your donk falling off or possibly worse, though Im not sure it could be worse than that, with Abstinence you don't have to worry about the possability of paying child support when your 18. Trust me, I know people that have had this happen to, they go strait out of school into work, working to pay for their screw up, condoms and birth control don't always work, would you take the chance at loosing well over $400 USD a month??
On the other side of the debate, I do agree with sex. Their are limits to it though, and you have to be careful about who you are sleeping with, more importantly who they have been sleeping with. I usually get yelled at when I use this line, its fairly common so a good bit of you prolly have heard it already.
Before you buy a car you test drive it don't you??? Same thing.
Before you spend $2,000 on that ring you wan't to know how it handles.
Sex is great, when your doing it for the right reasons, but it can turn abusive, sexaholic. Don't care about anything else, your job, food, just want sex and don't care from who or how.
P.S. im still not voting for anything.
Firstly, love does not mean marriage. I know people who are in love and have children but have never married. Being married is just the legal part.
Also, i think as long as people love each other, sex is fine at any age WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THE LAW. What does getting married mean? What is it, your fucking license to have sex? Thats rediculous.
The bottom line is, if 2 people wish to have sex and both have reasons for doing so and both actually want to, then there is no reason why they shouldnt. Its up to them to use protection if they want to or not. I know a friend of mine has never used a condom when he has sex with his girlfriend, she is on the pill and he pulls out (If your not quite sure what that means, think about it).
There is no equation here. Alot of you seem to think love + marriage = sex. Why cant it just be love...or even just because 2 people damn well want to fuck? Whats wrong with that? Its only human. If 2 people want to have sex, let em. The feeling is mutual, so there is nothing to say they shouldnt. Using protection is up to them.
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It should be updated, my side on this has changed somewhat. I realize that marriage is too extreme for today, so I'm toning it down somewhat, but I still think you should have sex only with someone you love, not just any woman that will have you. It may be so for others, but for me it should be only for committed relationships, serious ones.
I think that open sexuality is good, but you have to be mature about it. Then again I also think for myself and don't get swayed around by popular opinion, a 2 thousand year old book, or special intrest groups.
Basically, I say, if you are horney, fuck. But be mature about it.
Edit: Also, I refuse to vote in this poll as it is a bias poll, and is trying to sway people to one way of thinking via the wording.
Kudos by the way to Beastly 1 for resurrecting about fifty old threads in a day.
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I honetly don't get what's hard about slipping a condom on before fucking.
Also, lol, yea, good necroing. Lol.
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Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
Well yea, there are female condoms as well, not a damn clue how they work but there are some out there. And also birth control, but that only protects against birth, not std's.
I'm curious if both could use a condom, the male having a male condom and the female having a female condom...
And just to show there -ARE- female condoms:
Not a damn clue how they work, like I said, but there ARE female condoms...
Seriously though, I'm bailing out of this conversation. It's starting to feel like junior high sex ed all over again.
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Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
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Vote:
http://www.diablofans.com/forums/showthread.php?t=17929
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
Name: Genesis
Date: 16/01/08
Age: Who cares. Without balls, he might aswell be a fetus.
There you go.