I would partly agree with Silversurfer's new advice, but I still generally disagree with the original "play hard to get" part. Playing hard to get can work for some people (for both the target, and the executor), but not necessarily. Also, playing hard to get is not the same as finding another person. Many people may consider finding another person signifying he doesn't care about them anymore, and will loose ambition. Especially with the flirtatious type, they may have multiple alternatives to consider, and those who don't show interest will be excluded. Some may get jealous and attempt something, but my opinion is that it's really not guaranteed, and may cause problems.
Something seems really strange with the situation you're in. But in my opinion, you seem to be of a somewhat incompatible type with her, in that she is interested in being playful and not too serious, while you were too reluctant with ever asking her out (I've heard women oftentimes distinguish friends from potential mates early on in relationships, and getting out of friendship status may be hard), and seemingly more serious or over-critical (not that I know much about you). As SilverSurfer said, for someone like her, it would require you to be more outgoing, and not "run away" too quick. Assertiveness (or somewhat agressiveness) - Wikipedia explains it pretty well - is typically a very desireable trait to women.
its done, i failed Silver i couldnt resist the temptation of talking to her... she even told me, she only wants what she cant have.. so i really fucked it up...
im done with her, done talking to her and hanging out. OVER lol, i just hope the pain wont last forever
lol just thought of somthing. before you never talk to her agian. just be a slezze maybe and just have sex with her. just keep trying to get her in the sack. lol.
I despise casual sex, that's all... And I think getting back at someone is weak, it's like saying "I just want to hurt you because you hurt me." or something like that. Just leave it be and go do something productive instead of involving yourself into some teenage drama. You guys just have totally no responsibilities in your life if you actually manage to have time to get back at some stupid girl who gets aroused by random guys not tall enough for her to date.
Seriously, you guys are just sadly HILLARIOUS. Like, children of the moon, just got out of the egg shell, experimenting.
I think this whole fuss makes it pretty clear that Num3h and that girl should be as far as possible from each other.
Well, why are you complaining about some girl then if all you want is to get laid...
That's what I was thinking.
To me, casual sex would be horrible. I love sex, don't get me wrong, but it feels so great when it's with someone that you love and care for. It means so much more that way, and I'm not saying that because everyone "nice" says so - I'm saying it because it is a fact. And "living it up" is a poor excuse to give in to casual sex.
To me, casual sex would be horrible. I love sex, don't get me wrong, but it feels so great when it's with someone that you love and care for. It means so much more that way, and I'm not saying that because everyone "nice" says so - I'm saying it because it is a fact. And "living it up" is a poor excuse to give in to casual sex.
I wasn't talking about having casual sex, I was more so referring to her saying we were hilarious I guess for making stupid suggestions. Or being petty or something or another.
The way I see it, if someone doesn't respect you, you shouldn't respect them. If they respect you, then you should be good to them. Obviously, that girl doesn't respect him, so he should make no effort to be good to her.
The way I see it, if someone doesn't respect you, you shouldn't respect them. If they respect you, then you should be good to them. Obviously, that girl doesn't respect him, so he should make no effort to be good to her.
The way I see it, if someone doesn't respect you - leave them alone or continue to try to be nice. No use in returning the favor - trust me on that one. I've been there.
And if someone gives you respect, obviously you're going to want to give it back. That's the beauty of good friendship.
But if the girl isn't respecting him, he needs to leave her alone, or continue to play the "nice guy" if he still does have contact with her. No use in being disrespectful back to her and creating useless, time-consuming drama. Those are my words of advice.
The way I see it, if someone doesn't respect you - leave them alone or continue to try to be nice. No use in returning the favor - trust me on that one. I've been there.
And if someone gives you respect, obviously you're going to want to give it back. That's the beauty of good friendship.
But if the girl isn't respecting him, he needs to leave her alone, or continue to play the "nice guy" if he still does have contact with her. No use in being disrespectful back to her and creating useless, time-consuming drama. Those are my words of advice.
Well, I didn't mean to go out of your way just to start something with that particular person or anything like that. I'm just not the type to "play the nice guy" in those situations. I'm not mean to them or anything just not nice.
responding to equinox, the thing is that i dont want casual sex with her because she does mean something to me... but with other girls who i think are hot or cute or whatever then thats fine.
on a side note she called me AGAIN today after i blew her off last night... and she wanted to see a movie and i said maybee... that basically sums the conversation up.. lol
*ok adding to this i just finished talking to her on msn and she blocked me because i was telling the truth about the fact that she needs to sort some stuff out with herself before she moves on...and she got mad and blocked me... thats the last straw for me.. im blocking her from calling me and deleting her msn... if i can help it ill never see her again
anyways she came on today so i assume she just logged off and didnt block me... i apologized to her for whatever i did and she still hasnt responded. been 30 minutes... so its done done and done
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Something seems really strange with the situation you're in. But in my opinion, you seem to be of a somewhat incompatible type with her, in that she is interested in being playful and not too serious, while you were too reluctant with ever asking her out (I've heard women oftentimes distinguish friends from potential mates early on in relationships, and getting out of friendship status may be hard), and seemingly more serious or over-critical (not that I know much about you). As SilverSurfer said, for someone like her, it would require you to be more outgoing, and not "run away" too quick. Assertiveness (or somewhat agressiveness) - Wikipedia explains it pretty well - is typically a very desireable trait to women.
im done with her, done talking to her and hanging out. OVER lol, i just hope the pain wont last forever
Some girls like that sort of thing. -shrug-
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Because she's not worth it?
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Seriously, you guys are just sadly HILLARIOUS. Like, children of the moon, just got out of the egg shell, experimenting.
I think this whole fuss makes it pretty clear that Num3h and that girl should be as far as possible from each other.
and ya im done with her. as Equinox says.
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That's what I was thinking.
To me, casual sex would be horrible. I love sex, don't get me wrong, but it feels so great when it's with someone that you love and care for. It means so much more that way, and I'm not saying that because everyone "nice" says so - I'm saying it because it is a fact. And "living it up" is a poor excuse to give in to casual sex.
I wasn't talking about having casual sex, I was more so referring to her saying we were hilarious I guess for making stupid suggestions. Or being petty or something or another.
The way I see it, if someone doesn't respect you, you shouldn't respect them. If they respect you, then you should be good to them. Obviously, that girl doesn't respect him, so he should make no effort to be good to her.
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The way I see it, if someone doesn't respect you - leave them alone or continue to try to be nice. No use in returning the favor - trust me on that one. I've been there.
And if someone gives you respect, obviously you're going to want to give it back. That's the beauty of good friendship.
But if the girl isn't respecting him, he needs to leave her alone, or continue to play the "nice guy" if he still does have contact with her. No use in being disrespectful back to her and creating useless, time-consuming drama. Those are my words of advice.
Well, I didn't mean to go out of your way just to start something with that particular person or anything like that. I'm just not the type to "play the nice guy" in those situations. I'm not mean to them or anything just not nice.
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on a side note she called me AGAIN today after i blew her off last night... and she wanted to see a movie and i said maybee... that basically sums the conversation up.. lol
*ok adding to this i just finished talking to her on msn and she blocked me because i was telling the truth about the fact that she needs to sort some stuff out with herself before she moves on...and she got mad and blocked me... thats the last straw for me.. im blocking her from calling me and deleting her msn... if i can help it ill never see her again
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
and i suppose that does really sound immature of me... o well
Coming from the guy who said our solar system was the only thing in the Universe, I'd like to respond to that with a big: LOL.
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