Does she think of you as a brother? She might feel invaded if you become overbearing. The real issue is respectability, if he's a douche then tell him to back off. If he insists, get out the piano wire and lime.
Does she think of you as a brother? She might feel invaded if you become overbearing. The real issue is respectability, if he's a douche then tell him to back off. If he insists, get out the piano wire and lime.
lol she had a crush on me but the age difference is wrong me 15 she is 12 so i blew her off when she asked me so i guess we can say we are closs lol? dont want to be rude to my friend although he is getting a bit personal
Show him a list of sex offenders on the Internet that are tagged for life because they liked little kids that way
Seriously, tell the little girls parents about it, they need to know.
As friend you should let him know that if he keeps aiming in that direction he'll end up on that list, if he doesn't get it, then he isn't your friend. Last thing you need is that rap hanging on you if word gets out about him and you are associating with him.
Show him a list of sex offenders on the Internet that are tagged for life because they liked little kids that way
Seriously
Than tell him to aim for older women, they won't shoot their mouth off like a little kid will
yes but you have to rember this person could care less about hisown life let alone anothers so it wouldnt really do much good. i comfronted him about it and he goes "fine ill wait till she is 16" rofl yea when she is 16 your gonna be like 21
yes but you have to rember this person could care less about hisown life let alone anothers so it wouldnt really do much good. i comfronted him about it and he goes "fine ill wait till she is 16" rofl yea when she is 16 your gonna be like 21
I'm 42 and for myself I can tell you the decisions I made between the ages of 14 and 18 impacted the rest of my life far more than I thought they would. I had no idea at the time the friends I made, the things I did or did not do would have such a profound impact on my life and well being today. I have since compensated, but I had to work twice as hard as others around me who made better decisions than I at those ages.
If I could go back in time to 1980 and get to do it all over again, I would have picked a whole different set of friends.
I'm 42 and for myself I can tell you the decisions I made between the ages of 14 and 18 impacted the rest of my life far more than I thought they would. I had no idea at the time the friends I made, the things I did or did not do would have such a profound impact on my life and well being today. I have since compensated, but I had to work twice as hard as others around me who made better decisions than I at those ages.
If I could go back in time to 1980 and get to do it all over again, I would have picked a whole different set of friends.
yes my father has always told me the same "never to hang around with the wrong crowd" and he is absolutly right but sometimes its hard to push away a friend even if he is doing some very wrong things. hopefully my friend will lay off of this girl and it wont resort to violence but if he does continue i may have to beat some displine into him.
ok so my friend comes to my house and we have known each other since 9th grade (10th grade now) and he watches tv. and this 12 year old girl who is like my sister comes to my house too to play guitarhero. so she leaves at like 6 and my friend comes up to me and says
"dude that girl is hot (he knew she was 12)"
i found this disgusting and told him he was a fucking retard
next day on aim he sends me a message to ask the girl if she liked him
this is got to be one of the worst situatuions ever
he keps calling me to come over but i wanna keep him away from her
I know this is the obvious argument but, my dad is 50 and my mom is 47. It doesn't sound weird right? I don't see why people make these distinctions based on age when they are just doing what comes natural at that age. I know several 18 y/os that get pussy that is as old as their moms, nobody criticizes them. Best advice I can give you, is to get your head straight, dont second guess, and do what you think is right.
I know this is the obvious argument but, my dad is 50 and my mom is 47. It doesn't sound weird right? I don't see why people make these distinctions based on age when they are just doing what comes natural at that age. I know several 18 y/os that get pussy that is as old as their moms, nobody criticizes them. Best advice I can give you, is to get your head straight, dont second guess, and do what you think is right.
Right you are, at that age it doesn't matter and ages of course get farther apart in many cases. Women were married off at 14 up until the 50's before the law changed. But a 12 year old emotionally isn't ready and lacks the experience only time can provide to make a consenting and informed decision.
IMO being a teenager is the most difficult time in life, you fight for every independence you can get, you want to be counted, and you want to make a mark on the world. Older people try to to tell you to slow down and have patience, many of the reasons they give don't start to sink in until you approach 20 and to make matters worse their are malicious jerks who will take advantage of your youthful innocence throughout those years.
As you get older and you look back it's the jerks who took advantage of you that stick out in your mind and you then you get mad at being victimized. That ass who tricked you out of your money, or the one made you think they were your friend only years later do realize you were being taken advantage of, so many ways this happens. Then out of care for others you start telling people younger than you to slow down, be careful, etc.
I agree that twelve years old is too young, but what does she thinks about the guy?
Cause now I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 18, and we love each other.
Maybe you could help the guy telling him that if he wants to date with her when she 15 or I don't know 16, then he gotta study and get job, try to give some advice.
IF tou think that can help him, cause you know he is your friend too.
yes all of those are valid statements but murderface you have to rember this is a little girl we are talking about, she is 12 while my friend is 16 almost 17 in a few days i believe. it doesn't matter anyway im ready to end our friend ship if he tries to hurt her in anyway. i could careless if she was 15 or 16 where as she could be making her own decisions but she isnt so she needs someone to watch out for her and thats where i step in
her opinion of this boy is not so much different from mine, she came up to me today and when i asked what she thought of him, i said "so what would you do if (his name here) asked you out" she simply laughed and responded "ew that kid is ugly and he doesnt take showers"
then again she is 12, why would she reveal who she likes to me. i might just leave the situation alone and see what happens but i would prefer that i keep my friend and she isnt hurt
The only reason 12 is too young in this society is because we don't prepare our children sufficiently for life. I will admit that it does sound weird that he wants to go out with a 12 y/o tho. Where I live, dating someone even 2 grades below you is social suicide, let alone a sophomore dating a 7th grader, sheesh. I would just tell him she said "ew that kid is ugly and he doesnt take showers".
The only reason 12 is too young in this society is because we don't prepare our children sufficiently for life. I will admit that it does sound weird that he wants to go out with a 12 y/o tho. Where I live, dating someone even 2 grades below you is social suicide, let alone a sophomore dating a 7th grader, sheesh. I would just tell him she said "ew that kid is ugly and he doesnt take showers".
yes i can see where you are coming form and you do have a valid point but this kid thinks he is the "shit" and thinks he can fight so if i confront him i might be provoking him too, and i wouldnt want to hurt my friend at all. i belive the only thing to do right now is wait if he comes close ill give him the news, tell him how she feels about him. if he gets really close then my fist might accidently pop up in his face
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Anyway, me too. Who doesn't like intelligent, hard-working, moral people?...
Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
lol she had a crush on me but the age difference is wrong me 15 she is 12 so i blew her off when she asked me so i guess we can say we are closs lol? dont want to be rude to my friend although he is getting a bit personal
Seriously, tell the little girls parents about it, they need to know.
As friend you should let him know that if he keeps aiming in that direction he'll end up on that list, if he doesn't get it, then he isn't your friend. Last thing you need is that rap hanging on you if word gets out about him and you are associating with him.
yes but you have to rember this person could care less about hisown life let alone anothers so it wouldnt really do much good. i comfronted him about it and he goes "fine ill wait till she is 16" rofl yea when she is 16 your gonna be like 21
I'm 42 and for myself I can tell you the decisions I made between the ages of 14 and 18 impacted the rest of my life far more than I thought they would. I had no idea at the time the friends I made, the things I did or did not do would have such a profound impact on my life and well being today. I have since compensated, but I had to work twice as hard as others around me who made better decisions than I at those ages.
If I could go back in time to 1980 and get to do it all over again, I would have picked a whole different set of friends.
yes my father has always told me the same "never to hang around with the wrong crowd" and he is absolutly right but sometimes its hard to push away a friend even if he is doing some very wrong things. hopefully my friend will lay off of this girl and it wont resort to violence but if he does continue i may have to beat some displine into him.
1/3 of the people in the world like you, 1/3 don't, and 1/3 don't care. It's your job to make the 1/3 that don't care, to care.
Cheers
Wow, ROFL. That guy is a future rapist.
Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
Right you are, at that age it doesn't matter and ages of course get farther apart in many cases. Women were married off at 14 up until the 50's before the law changed. But a 12 year old emotionally isn't ready and lacks the experience only time can provide to make a consenting and informed decision.
IMO being a teenager is the most difficult time in life, you fight for every independence you can get, you want to be counted, and you want to make a mark on the world. Older people try to to tell you to slow down and have patience, many of the reasons they give don't start to sink in until you approach 20 and to make matters worse their are malicious jerks who will take advantage of your youthful innocence throughout those years.
As you get older and you look back it's the jerks who took advantage of you that stick out in your mind and you then you get mad at being victimized. That ass who tricked you out of your money, or the one made you think they were your friend only years later do realize you were being taken advantage of, so many ways this happens. Then out of care for others you start telling people younger than you to slow down, be careful, etc.
Cause now I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 18, and we love each other.
Maybe you could help the guy telling him that if he wants to date with her when she 15 or I don't know 16, then he gotta study and get job, try to give some advice.
IF tou think that can help him, cause you know he is your friend too.
But my dad is 10 years older than my mom and it's fine.
her opinion of this boy is not so much different from mine, she came up to me today and when i asked what she thought of him, i said "so what would you do if (his name here) asked you out" she simply laughed and responded "ew that kid is ugly and he doesnt take showers"
then again she is 12, why would she reveal who she likes to me. i might just leave the situation alone and see what happens but i would prefer that i keep my friend and she isnt hurt
Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
yes i can see where you are coming form and you do have a valid point but this kid thinks he is the "shit" and thinks he can fight so if i confront him i might be provoking him too, and i wouldnt want to hurt my friend at all. i belive the only thing to do right now is wait if he comes close ill give him the news, tell him how she feels about him. if he gets really close then my fist might accidently pop up in his face