Ok i wont really go into details but to sum it up. Me and this girl have been friends for a while and before i liked her sort of. Like she was hot/cute and has a very good sense of humor and is very fun to talk to. however i obviously got the wrong sense when i started to like her a lot... what threw me off was her grabbing my ass, grabbing my balls, saying "do you feel the same way about me as i do about you", and her calling me all the time and talking on msn all the time, and hugging and touching me whenever she saw me... so iv been under a burden for some time, it was hurting me inside to not ask her, i didnt ask her before because i didnt want her to say no even though she gave all those signs... im fairly certain this is the first girl i have ever truly loved... full through and through. she is just perfect i love her personality (and looks haha ) All the time it was like i was the hero from d1 and i stuck that soul stone in my head and i kept on hearing the tormented whispers of the damned... this huge longing for her inside of me pushed me toward her (east always east haha)
but yea anyways so i was talking to her at 4am today and basically she said no... and it seemed to me like she was shocked and broadsided by me asking her out to a movie... she was like uhhhhhhhh................................................ and then it was akward and i 'facepalmed' it... i even said ahh fuck hahaha. then she laughed and then we basically said bye (i was going to sleep)
so yea fuck well even though that hurt like hell and was embarrassing as all fuck... i feel like this HUGE ass weight has been lifted off of me. Like i can breath again and have other goals then just her. I know it is going to hurt for a long long time (its like frodo and the ring haha) I will carry this burden for the rest of my days (perhaps not that long, but certainly for a long long long time) anyways its nearly 5am now and i just wanted to share this story haha... hopefully my pain will subside
*and hopefully my friendship with this girl will not be damaged because of this..
I don't understand it. She just wanted to touch you all the time because she can? Great way to give the wrong message... And now you're traumatised forever.
ya honestly i dont fucking get it. like whenever we would see each other at a party she would run up and hug me, and just like run her hands over my back and chest... and when we went to a movie together with some other people she like looped her arm between mine (i had my thumbs in my pack pockets).. and in the theatre she was always leaning over to me
like i cant believe how i could feel that way for the girl and not have her feel the same way back... i was just so sure.. like on msn we talked a good 3 hours a day about whatever. i actually couldnt believe it when she said no.. man now that i think about it more.... im actually really sad now lol
lol, but girls dont talk on msn for 3 hours a day everyday just to get laid. and like i said i already gave her that chance at a party and at other occasions... like when i hinted that she should come over after work to relax...
this is just bloody annoying... makes me even more mad ill never ever get to have her.
If it was me, I would probably be feeling hate rather than sorrow.
But that's just me.
I hate it when girls mess with guys like that.
But who knows, maybe she does like you, but just doesn't want to get too involved? Either way, she should sort herself out first before giving any obvious signals. Its not like she comes from a completely different culture or anything.
A member of the opposite sex, ussualy a female who entices you into thinking you have a chance. Almost always ends with you having blueballs and feelings of sorrow, resentment and bitterness.
except this is like a new level she went above and beyond to like super tease kick you in the balls and stab you in the heart then shake your hand and pretend everything is still fine.
...All the time it was like i was the hero from d1 and i stuck that soul stone in my head and i kept on hearing the tormented whispers of the damned... this huge longing for her inside of me pushed me toward her (east always east haha)
damn dude. i have no idea of what too say to help you out. i would just keep playing the part. like if she still keeps doing the flirty stuff to you just go along with it. and then if she wants to go out with you or something then its like "score" lol. but i wouldnt take my advice seeing how i have never gone through any type of relation thing at all. lol. just gotta say good luck and hope you guys stay friends.
wow sounds like she was playing hard to get and being a tease like you said, then when you asked her out, it sounded like she had it planned to turn you down. I mean yeah thats just being a total bitch, but hopefully ur friendship with her will continue if you want it too, the only thing is is it might be awkward, which is what I hate being around certain chicks. Im working on getting a girl but am worried about what heppened to you, she's been my friend for like 3 years now and we have alot of the same interests but im afraid if i ask her to be my girl and she says no it will be awkward around her, and i dont want that.
ya it sucks either way i guess. sort of a dilema but if it works then its a bonus
*ok she just called me from work and she says she is going to come see me after shes off (while im at work on break).... so im confused. at least our friendship looks like its still intact (Y)
but yea anyways so i was talking to her at 4am today and basically she said no... and it seemed to me like she was shocked and broadsided by me asking her out to a movie... she was like uhhhhhhhh................................................ and then it was akward and i 'facepalmed' it... i even said ahh fuck hahaha. then she laughed and then we basically said bye (i was going to sleep)
so yea fuck well even though that hurt like hell and was embarrassing as all fuck... i feel like this HUGE ass weight has been lifted off of me. Like i can breath again and have other goals then just her. I know it is going to hurt for a long long time (its like frodo and the ring haha) I will carry this burden for the rest of my days (perhaps not that long, but certainly for a long long long time) anyways its nearly 5am now and i just wanted to share this story haha... hopefully my pain will subside
*and hopefully my friendship with this girl will not be damaged because of this..
like i cant believe how i could feel that way for the girl and not have her feel the same way back... i was just so sure.. like on msn we talked a good 3 hours a day about whatever. i actually couldnt believe it when she said no.. man now that i think about it more.... im actually really sad now lol
this is just bloody annoying... makes me even more mad ill never ever get to have her.
But that's just me.
I hate it when girls mess with guys like that.
But who knows, maybe she does like you, but just doesn't want to get too involved? Either way, she should sort herself out first before giving any obvious signals. Its not like she comes from a completely different culture or anything.
which reminds me she is like a tease
this being the definitition-
A member of the opposite sex, ussualy a female who entices you into thinking you have a chance. Almost always ends with you having blueballs and feelings of sorrow, resentment and bitterness.
except this is like a new level she went above and beyond to like super tease kick you in the balls and stab you in the heart then shake your hand and pretend everything is still fine.
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That's always my #1 worry when asking a girl out, luckily all the girls I like aren't the kind of people who do that :D.
its not supposed to be a nice game
autostats are rediclous
lack of pots is not welcome
if it aint broke dont fix it! (diablo2)
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
It's the decisions you make when you have no time to make them that define who you are.
Your girlfriend is crazy about you? Isn't that normal?
Sry for your loss bro
unzip, strip, touch, finger, grep, mount, fsck, more, yes, fsck, fsck, fsck, umount, sleep
ya it sucks either way i guess. sort of a dilema but if it works then its a bonus
*ok she just called me from work and she says she is going to come see me after shes off (while im at work on break).... so im confused. at least our friendship looks like its still intact (Y)
But that's the issue; she isn't his girlfriend. He tried to make her his, but she declined. Thats the confusing part.