Then just let her know you like her. The way i see it is she is giving you signs to see if you will turn around and try to turn her on... and your not the only one she is doing that to of course... there are plenty others that she is doing that to im sure and she is just waiting for someone to turn around and give her a positive reaction that she will be attracted to. And if you do that... then there begins your adventure.
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Im going to talk to her, thats what she has been trying to get me to do. If I get a bit more signs from her then I will definetly ask her out. I mean how much more obvious can this get.
i hate it when girls do these things, cause you dont know if they like you, i had two girls that always hung around me(at different times) and i thought they liked my but they really didnt, and it really sucked
If these signs are true, then I would say that she is interested, so if you really like her, I would say that you need to keep working on making her like you more and then ask her out.
If you like her, ask her out. You'll regret it when you get older if you don't. Trust me. You got nothing to lose anyways. Just stay out of the "friend status" because once you're her "friend", good luck dating her. lol
If you like her, ask her out. You'll regret it when you get older if you don't. Trust me. You got nothing to lose anyways. Just stay out of the "friend status" because once you're her "friend", good luck dating her. lol
Hell yeah. I totally agree. Short story. Last night I was at a party with a bunch of friends. I'm 23, and most people at the party were 19-23. But there was this one girl who is actually my friend's neighbor, she's 35. Now before you think anything, this girl looks like she is still 20, gorgeous girl. She is actually a model for Ford (she's setting me up with a interview, WOOT!!). Now for the first half of the night, there were zero signs that she even wanted to really have a conversation with anyone. But as the night progressed into the morning, 7 of us went back to her place to have a couple more drinks and smoke and whatnot. So around 6am, the group has dwindled to 4 of us, and one of the guys is passed out. whatever, extraneous detail. We're all watching some sci-fi stuff online, and she starts touching my leg, and resting her head on my lap and stuff like that. Now that could mean nothing or everything. So 11am rolls around, and we all say bye. I was gonna go back to her place and see if anything would have progressed, but I chickened out. So I sort of missed an opportunity, except that she has facebook. So I send this message:
I just wanted to say thanks for having us over all night. It was a blast!
You are such a fun and intelligent girl (not to mention beautiful).
I would love to hang out more. Would you like to go out to dinner with me sometime?
Ryan
Simple, to the point. And if she doesn't want to, oh well. But I wouldn't know if she really liked me unless I find out. And if she says she doesn't date guys as young as me, I can say "Who said I wanted to date you, I just wanted to get dinner sometime." Almost mean, but keeps her on her toes, and that right there might be enough to get her more interested. Gotta keep them wanting more. So my fingers are crossed for a girl who seems really great.
But yeah, DGK, just start talking to her. Feel it out, don't talk so much about school, and do a couple of gentle touches with your hand on her shoulder, back, or back of her arm. Open doors, lend her your jacket if its cold. You want her to know that you are interested too. Make sure the touches aren't hard at all. They need to be firm, no limp wrist, but soft and almost caressing. Trust me on this one. After I started doing a couple of those to the girl last night, she started making contact with me back. If she is even the slightest bit interested, it works every time.
Good luck!!:thumbsup:
I'll probably post back in here with an update to my situation when she messages me back, just to show that it never hurts to ask a girl out.
Just stay out of the "friend status" because once you're her "friend", good luck dating her. lol
I don't know... Maybe I am just lucky, or really sexy, but every girl I have ever befriended has tried to get with me sexually at some point. The same can't be said for every girl I asked out. It may not work for you though.
I just find it much easier to get to raise the comfort level with each other. Sometimes the gigglers and shy ones just need a little coaxing before they open up to you. (no pun)
Also note the most of the quite shy girls I had in the sack were freaks....:D enjoy that aspect if you get that far!
Yeah I don't want to regret this decision which is why I REALLY want to ask her out and stay out of the "Friend Zone"
@Archie
The girl is really shy, she doesn't talk to anybody but her friends. So I can't start a conversation with her, I don't know why. I know to little about her to even know what to say.
The girl you are asking out doesn't seem shy and you know her well enough to have her facebook.
@Dub Lucifer
I an definetly going to stay out of the friend zone, I really dont want to fuck this up
Ok so here is what happened today (Monday)
well nothing really happened I walk in late into class and everyone glances at me and I sit down. She doesn't really try to engage in conversations anymore but every once in a while there is a stare. I looked at her for maybe 4 seconds while she was taking something out of her backpack and she looked at me through the corner of her eye and we both broke contact.
Im thinking of just going straight up to her and just asking her out....
But her damn friend is always with her when they are walking out of class.
You need to have some balls. Tell her friend "can I have a moment with "whatever the hell her name is" please?". Say it in a friendly, but decisive way. If she likes you (and she probably does), she will ditch her friend, and walk with you.
I know you probably don't give two shits about this, but if you're going to date her, then shit doesn't work out, don't expect her to be your friend. Some exs remain "Friends" after their relationship ends, but that's such a crappy friendship, y'know? It's like gambling. All in, or nothing at all.
You need to have some balls. Tell her friend "can I have a moment with "whatever the hell her name is" please?". Say it in a friendly, but decisive way. If she likes you (and she probably does), she will ditch her friend, and walk with you.
I know you probably don't give two shits about this, but if you're going to date her, then shit doesn't work out, don't expect her to be your friend. Some exs remain "Friends" after their relationship ends, but that's such a crappy friendship, y'know? It's like gambling. All in, or nothing at all.
Yeah I agree im going to do this if there is absolutely no other way to ask her out when no one is there.
I like her way to much to not ask her out over a girl that follows her around.
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Yeah I mean if she says no which I doubt she will then big deal
Uhh can the mods put the posts together because I am on my PS3 typing this and you can't copy and paste quotes to form one post
Then just let her know you like her. The way i see it is she is giving you signs to see if you will turn around and try to turn her on... and your not the only one she is doing that to of course... there are plenty others that she is doing that to im sure and she is just waiting for someone to turn around and give her a positive reaction that she will be attracted to. And if you do that... then there begins your adventure.
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Hell yeah. I totally agree. Short story. Last night I was at a party with a bunch of friends. I'm 23, and most people at the party were 19-23. But there was this one girl who is actually my friend's neighbor, she's 35. Now before you think anything, this girl looks like she is still 20, gorgeous girl. She is actually a model for Ford (she's setting me up with a interview, WOOT!!). Now for the first half of the night, there were zero signs that she even wanted to really have a conversation with anyone. But as the night progressed into the morning, 7 of us went back to her place to have a couple more drinks and smoke and whatnot. So around 6am, the group has dwindled to 4 of us, and one of the guys is passed out. whatever, extraneous detail. We're all watching some sci-fi stuff online, and she starts touching my leg, and resting her head on my lap and stuff like that. Now that could mean nothing or everything. So 11am rolls around, and we all say bye. I was gonna go back to her place and see if anything would have progressed, but I chickened out. So I sort of missed an opportunity, except that she has facebook. So I send this message:
Simple, to the point. And if she doesn't want to, oh well. But I wouldn't know if she really liked me unless I find out. And if she says she doesn't date guys as young as me, I can say "Who said I wanted to date you, I just wanted to get dinner sometime." Almost mean, but keeps her on her toes, and that right there might be enough to get her more interested. Gotta keep them wanting more. So my fingers are crossed for a girl who seems really great.
But yeah, DGK, just start talking to her. Feel it out, don't talk so much about school, and do a couple of gentle touches with your hand on her shoulder, back, or back of her arm. Open doors, lend her your jacket if its cold. You want her to know that you are interested too. Make sure the touches aren't hard at all. They need to be firm, no limp wrist, but soft and almost caressing. Trust me on this one. After I started doing a couple of those to the girl last night, she started making contact with me back. If she is even the slightest bit interested, it works every time.
Good luck!!:thumbsup:
I'll probably post back in here with an update to my situation when she messages me back, just to show that it never hurts to ask a girl out.
I don't know... Maybe I am just lucky, or really sexy, but every girl I have ever befriended has tried to get with me sexually at some point. The same can't be said for every girl I asked out. It may not work for you though.
I just find it much easier to get to raise the comfort level with each other. Sometimes the gigglers and shy ones just need a little coaxing before they open up to you. (no pun)
Also note the most of the quite shy girls I had in the sack were freaks....:D enjoy that aspect if you get that far!
Yeah I don't want to regret this decision which is why I REALLY want to ask her out and stay out of the "Friend Zone"
@Archie
The girl is really shy, she doesn't talk to anybody but her friends. So I can't start a conversation with her, I don't know why. I know to little about her to even know what to say.
The girl you are asking out doesn't seem shy and you know her well enough to have her facebook.
@Dub Lucifer
I an definetly going to stay out of the friend zone, I really dont want to fuck this up
Ok so here is what happened today (Monday)
well nothing really happened I walk in late into class and everyone glances at me and I sit down. She doesn't really try to engage in conversations anymore but every once in a while there is a stare. I looked at her for maybe 4 seconds while she was taking something out of her backpack and she looked at me through the corner of her eye and we both broke contact.
Im thinking of just going straight up to her and just asking her out....
But her damn friend is always with her when they are walking out of class.
Don't know what to do
I know you probably don't give two shits about this, but if you're going to date her, then shit doesn't work out, don't expect her to be your friend. Some exs remain "Friends" after their relationship ends, but that's such a crappy friendship, y'know? It's like gambling. All in, or nothing at all.
Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions
Yeah I agree im going to do this if there is absolutely no other way to ask her out when no one is there.
I like her way to much to not ask her out over a girl that follows her around.
Yeah I mean if she says no which I doubt she will then big deal
Uhh can the mods put the posts together because I am on my PS3 typing this and you can't copy and paste quotes to form one post
Then just do it anyway..and when you do it, ask her out.
Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions