I will be on later today to help you out. Since I can't always be on (sadly), I will also hook you up with some tips and a small rundown on how the next 10 levels should be done. I know how to level without doing instances, so that is probably what you are looking for as well.
In regards to your gear, what are your two main professions? I can drop some tipps as to how they could help you obtain better gear outside of PvP and instances.
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