At my age, 14, most people (at least where I live) will have sex or want sex just for the sake of actually having it, and being able to say they've had it, and whatever other reasons they may have. The might not actually trust or care for the person, or even know them for that matter.
I'm definitely not like that, although I don't want to have sex yet myself, mainly because I'm paranoid of getting the girl pregnant (which is probably silly, but I don't know any statistics on birth control pills or condoms, so whatever...).
I see nothing immoral about it if it's done with someone you trust and care about.
As for relationships:
Eh, age isn't a big deal to me although there can be some problems with age differences. The main problem I have with big age differences (specifically for myself), is people thinking I'm weird or my partner is weird for being in a relationship with a big age difference. I more so am concerned about what people think for my partner than myself, though, as I don't care what people think of me much anymore. One of my friends helped that happen... an interesting story for a different time.
All of what I said about sex and relationships is said without experience, though. Maybe it'd change with experience, I don't know. I didn't think much on it before I made this post nor did I care much for explaining things. Also, my grammar probably sucks, as I thought and typed fast, but oh well, try to make sense of it... I am tired and have homework T_T
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
At my age, 14, most people (at least where I live) will have sex or want sex just for the sake of actually having it, and being able to say they've had it, and whatever other reasons they may have. The might not actually trust or care for the person, or even know them for that matter.
I'm definitely not like that, although I don't want to have sex yet myself, mainly because I'm paranoid of getting the girl pregnant (which is probably silly, but I don't know any statistics on birth control pills or condoms, so whatever...).
I see nothing immoral about it if it's done with someone you trust and care about.
As for relationships:
Eh, age isn't a big deal to me although there can be some problems with age differences. The main problem I have with big age differences (specifically for myself), is people thinking I'm weird or my partner is weird for being in a relationship with a big age difference. I more so am concerned about what people think for my partner than myself, though, as I don't care what people think of me much anymore. One of my friends helped that happen... an interesting story for a different time.
All of what I said about sex and relationships is said without experience, though. Maybe it'd change with experience, I don't know. I didn't think much on it before I made this post nor did I care much for explaining things. Also, my grammar probably sucks, as I thought and typed fast, but oh well, try to make sense of it... I am tired and have homework T_T
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
I am Australian, Born there, raised there. I moved here for a new experince. I am NOT from Tennessee.