Relationship over - what to do with left-over toys ?

  • #1
    Hi people !

    first of all: this post is not about the relationship but about items that my ex-gf and i bought together, so they kind of belong to both of us ... after our 3 year long relationship just ended i was wondering:

    what to do with all those toys that we bought together?
    on the one hand i feel that they might be put to use again so i should keep them ...
    but on the other hand i find it disgusting and i would consider throwing them away ...

    i'm not exactly sure what to do with that stuff ... i also fear that my new gf discovers that stuff and finds it repelling, i would like to avoid that situation as long as we haven't talked about sexuality so far ...

    i would love to hear a womans point of view on this as well as the general attitute towards keeping left-over toys after a relationship.

    also thanks for your help and for your input!
    i hope that this is no "forbidden" topic in this forum :)

    best wishes
    TheCrusader
  • #2
    dudeee ebay.com
  • #3
    split them with ex, the half you are keeping just hide some place private where no one would find them. once you'll need them/want them/new GF is ready for them, you'll know where they are. i dont see the problem here.
  • #4
    Are you sure diablofans is the right place to find girls? (:
  • #5
    Quote from Bogok

    Are you sure diablofans is the right place to find girls? (:


    i know they are out there :D
    also this isn't the only forum i posted that thread ^^
  • #6
    We actually have some nice looking girls in here >.>
    You'll have to find them yourself. ^^

    Ha. Bagstone.

  • #7
    I'm assuming by toys you mean... adult toys... which if that's the case, keep what you want, give her the rest or toss it out, make sure to run it by the new girlfriend I'd say.
  • #8
    Well this is a strange topic to run across here. Ha ha. :P If it's mostly toys for a girl I'd say give them to her / toss them out. If any of them are for you I'd keep them private until you meet someone new. If whoever you meet next seems shy in the department I'd toss the rest out, but if she seems open to it keep them around.
  • #9
    I agree with Tralari. Keep only what toys you personally use and give up the rest or toss them. I don't think it would ever be considered OK with any girl to use toys that another girl used in an intimate relationship with you.
  • #10
    Keep the nintendo related stuff! I deny believing that this thread is about adult toys!

    It is gaming consoles.
    It is gaming consoles.
    It is gaming consoles.
    Please let it be gaming consoles!

    EDIT: To relate to the topic I am denying it to be!
    Toss everything out, start fresh. It is how I find dealing with stuff like that should be.
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  • #11
    Quote from TheCrusader

    what to do with all those toys that we bought together?
    on the one hand i feel that they might be put to use again so i should keep them ...
    but on the other hand i find it disgusting and i would consider throwing them away ...


    Dude... throw it away, all of it. It can do you no good. If you happen to be with a new girl who finds she may be disgusted as you said. If she doesn't mind and would like to use them... then you have a different sort of problem. Do you want a girl who is ok with using second hand "toys"?
  • #12
    I think we need details. What toys? Pics? ok, maybe no pics!!!
  • #13
    I suppose "leave them in obscure public locations" is out of the question? :D
    In all seriousness, give her what she wants, keep and hide what you want, ditch the rest. Don't throw the lot, for 2 reasons:
    A) Not cheap
    B ) If she asks for them after you've thrown the lot, depending on the person she may give you the look of "no, you're just keeping them as a trophy"
  • #14
    Fraps or it didn't happen.
    When I grow up, I want to be a frill-necked lizard.
  • #15
    Quote from Patchwerk

    A) Not cheap


    I really don't think most of them will be reusable in a practical sense...
  • #16
    Keep the whips and chains. Any dildos, anal beads or butt plugs I would toss, unless you want to save them to suck on or whatever until you find someone new, or maybe they will be freaky like that Mm Mm. I don't mess with cock rings.
  • #17
    So basically you are asking if you can use your ex's dildo on a new chick?

    In reality its no different than having unprotected sex with your ex and then unprotected sex with your new gf... your cock is still a toy.

    However... do the new girl a favor and lysol the fuck outa the dildo
  • #18
    Yeah definitely don't keep the toys that were for her. I don't think it was too clear in my last post. Ha ha. I would never be OK using something that was for someone else. :bleh:
  • #19
    Quote from thundersteele

    I think we need details. What toys? Pics? ok, maybe no pics!!!


    aaaaah .... no
  • #20
    well ... i'll go with all or nothing ... so i'm throwing all out ...
    half of the stuff will go to the ex, the rest to the trashcan
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