tl;dr OP hates the entire game and blizzard and everyone that likes the game at all.
look, d3 was a huge commercial success. that much is obvious. was it still a complete let down? yes, everyone knows it. was it a worthy successor to d2? did it become the freeform ultima online 2 people were hoping for with pking and stuff back in whatever ten years ago date it was originally announced ?
no. its a korean grind game with a RLAH. BUT ITS MY GRIND GAME OK? LET ME JUST GRIND IN IT, AND LET ME TRY TO ENJOY IT. NOW IM CRYING. I HOPE YOU'RE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF. WHY COULDN'T YOU JUST LET ME ENJOY THE BAD GAME D3 IS??!1 WHYYYYY
but seriously - d3 is what it is. its honestly probably just a cash battery for Project Titan for blizzard right now. what did you expect? the development took forever and like a zillion different people had their dirty paws in the mix at one point or another.
quotes to live by:
"this game sucks, but i can't stop playing it."
just play it for a few months. get yo sixty bux out of it, then play whatever the next hyped up MMO or MOBA out is around christmas time.
roll yourself a nice spliff and put on the QVC shopping channel for background noise and pour yourself a nice beer and log in to ventrilo with your friends and just farm for some drops. just relax. have fun with it. not everything has to be a mega battle arena world invitational sponsored gaming hollywood event to be worth sixty bucks anymore.