people should get some self esteem. jesus..
all this "but then they ask me.. and... it bothers me.. they wont accept a no.. but wahh wahhh BabyCry*
are u 12? just say no and done. if they have a problem with that --> remove from flist. if there rL friends --> call them a day later and tell them how fucked up they acted.
this goes to both side. the "yes" and "no" sayers to an offline mode.