So, this guy asked me out today while I was waiting for a pizza to be made. I was sitting in the pizzeria, (surfing diablofans.com from my blackberry) just minding my own business and this guy around my age started making lite talk with me. (he left and I am still at the pizza place waiting for my pie).
He asked my name and introduced himself. I think I missed his name tho lol :-o
He seemed nice enough and asked if he could take me out sometime, but I told him I wasn't sure whether I was interested or not and I asked him for his number so I could maybe txt him and see whether we have any thing in common.
He gave me his bbm pin and I told him I would add him when I got home.
So I am here waiting for my pizza, and wondered what you guys would do in this situation. And what your idea of a good first date is. It'll be interesting to read. And I am bored and lonely here while I wait for my pizza so humor me please! Lol
I'm not the kind of guy to just walk up to a girl at a random place and do something like that guy did, but every guy has his style I guess. You can talk to him and see what his interests are, but if his real self is a nasty idiot who just wants to have sex, he'll tell you everything you want to hear, so if you see him agreeing with pretty much every view point you offer and feel like everything he is saying is too perfect and is right out off Hollywood, it probably is too good to be true and he's just trying to get laid.
My own "ideal date" if there is one, would be a quiet night where it's just the girl and myself at her place or mine talking about everything interesting, preferably something smart, mixed in with things about ourselves so we'd get to know each other more. I wouldn't want it to be awkward from sexual tension, since that always seems to be an awkward situation for me, sometimes too much so. If it isn't a date at home (that's my style, I'm not too big on going out and thinking up bedazzling things just to impress a girl), I'd take her to dinner at a nice place, then take her to our summer home if I had the chance and have us watch the sunrise (or the sunset if she can't stay up late or something) over some wine and nice music. At the end, a kiss would be nice, since that's always a decent indicator of physical chemistry. At the end of the night, I want to feel like she was an interesting, smart, kwerky person who doesn't take everything so seriously, knows how to have fun without the use of Trance music and flashy bullshit, and is comfortable spending the night with a person she's interested in at home, watching a nice movie and having a nice drink and chat. I'm all about the simple, basic, rudimentary things in life, and if I ever find a girl that's like that, then I'd consider myself lucky. No such luck yet, though, lol.
Well, it depends. If the date is at home (either mine or hers), i expect sex.
So i usually prefer a bar, get some drinks, talk a bit and if she's interesting (and interested) then i can invite her home (not the same night) for a movie, or a massage. Yeah, i've been told i'm good at massages
Anyway, that's about it. In the rare occasions that i meet a girl that's really horny it has happened that we went from the bar straight home. But that doesn't happen often, it's more of a statistical anomally
Now if you're asking about the ideal woman... i don't think she exists. I just look for the one that annoys me the least.
Well, it depends. If the date is at home (either mine or hers), i expect sex.
So i usually prefer a bar, get some drinks, talk a bit and if she's interesting (and interested) then i can invite her home (not the same night) for a movie, or a massage. Yeah, i've been told i'm good at massages
Anyway, that's about it. In the rare occasions that i meet a girl that's really horny it has happened that we went from the bar straight home. But that doesn't happen often, it's more of a statistical anomally
Now if you're asking about the ideal woman... i don't think she exists. I just look for the one that annoys me the least.
Wait, are you telling me the socially awkward, exceptionally flawless, and extremely attractive female the portray in the movies who happens to be the love interest of the main character, doesn't actually exist? Oh, the horror..the betrayal.
Well, it depends. If the date is at home (either mine or hers), i expect sex.
So i usually prefer a bar, get some drinks, talk a bit and if she's interesting (and interested) then i can invite her home (not the same night) for a movie, or a massage. Yeah, i've been told i'm good at massages
Anyway, that's about it. In the rare occasions that i meet a girl that's really horny it has happened that we went from the bar straight home. But that doesn't happen often, it's more of a statistical anomally
Now if you're asking about the ideal woman... i don't think she exists. I just look for the one that annoys me the least.
Wait, are you telling me the socially awkward, exceptionally flawless, and extremely attractive female the portray in the movies who happens to be the love interest of the main character, doesn't actually exist? Oh, the horror..the betrayal.
Well, it depends. If the date is at home (either mine or hers), i expect sex.
So i usually prefer a bar, get some drinks, talk a bit and if she's interesting (and interested) then i can invite her home (not the same night) for a movie, or a massage. Yeah, i've been told i'm good at massages
Anyway, that's about it. In the rare occasions that i meet a girl that's really horny it has happened that we went from the bar straight home. But that doesn't happen often, it's more of a statistical anomally
Now if you're asking about the ideal woman... i don't think she exists. I just look for the one that annoys me the least.
youre so fcking greek.
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"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
Well, it depends. If the date is at home (either mine or hers), i expect sex.
So i usually prefer a bar, get some drinks, talk a bit and if she's interesting (and interested) then i can invite her home (not the same night) for a movie, or a massage. Yeah, i've been told i'm good at massages
Anyway, that's about it. In the rare occasions that i meet a girl that's really horny it has happened that we went from the bar straight home. But that doesn't happen often, it's more of a statistical anomally
Now if you're asking about the ideal woman... i don't think she exists. I just look for the one that annoys me the least.
youre so fcking greek.
Am I?
I think many greeks skip the first date as i described it and try to get to the second right away
oh boy... you know i'm kinda scared to speak english just cause of "the accent". I do speak very well when (close to) drunk, however. Perhaps i should do that more often... let me get my vodka, you got the lemons and let's skype it up
My ideal date would be the woman taking me to some sort of specialty store that sells various forms of jerky. Elk jerky, venison jerky, buffalo jerky, ostrich jerky, turkey jerky, and the king of jerky, beef jerky.
After that we'd probably go see a movie and I'd have her sneak some jerky into the movie theater inside her purse. She'd buy the ticket of course because I'm pro-feminism We'd probably watch a horror movie, maybe an action one, or something in between.
Then she'd take me out to eat, where I would gorge myself on copious amounts of beef, mostly steak, but ribs are welcome too. She'd pay for the bill but I'd get the tip, chivalry isn't completely dead.
After that we'd head back to my house, though we'd have to be sure not to wake up my pregnant fiancee or my daughter, so we'd just stay downstairs and make sweet love by the light of my 42" flat screen TV. Probably while something like Family Guy is playing in the background.
My ideal date would be the woman taking me to some sort of specialty store that sells various forms of jerky. Elk jerky, venison jerky, buffalo jerky, ostrich jerky, turkey jerky, and the king of jerky, beef jerky.
After that we'd probably go see a movie and I'd have her sneak some jerky into the movie theater inside her purse. She'd buy the ticket of course because I'm pro-feminism We'd probably watch a horror movie, maybe an action one, or something in between.
Then she'd take me out to eat, where I would gorge myself on copious amounts of beef, mostly steak, but ribs are welcome too. She'd pay for the bill but I'd get the tip, chivalry isn't completely dead.
After that we'd head back to my house, though we'd have to be sure not to wake up my pregnant fiancee or my daughter, so we'd just stay downstairs and make sweet love by the light of my 42" flat screen TV. Probably while something like Family Guy is playing in the background.
I've done it with Family Guy in the background....
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-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
Here we go, I just thought this up and I'm craving it right now.
I only thought about how it would end because I'm rushed atm, so anyways.
After a day of awesomeness... We are laying outside on the ground, with no bugs around, on top of some comfy blankets. Cuddling and staring up towards the clear sky to admire the stars together. Which then leads to a crazy hot intimate love session, and then some babies, twins!
Edit: scrap the blankets and make it a sexy comfy bed outside.
I wish I could actually contribute here. But I have no desire to really date right now. I mean, I would certainly go on one. But thats not something I'm really concerned with at this point in my life.
I guess, from past experience, one of the best times I've had was a spontaneous trip to a small airport at night and watching the stars and talking. Jesus that sounds lame lol.
@Noomba
No bugs would be awesome in that situation.
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"I want to say something but I'll keep it to myself I guess and leave this useless post behind to make you aware that there WAS something... "
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
My ideal date would be the woman taking me to some sort of specialty store that sells various forms of jerky. Elk jerky, venison jerky, buffalo jerky, ostrich jerky, turkey jerky, and the king of jerky, beef jerky.
After that we'd probably go see a movie and I'd have her sneak some jerky into the movie theater inside her purse. She'd buy the ticket of course because I'm pro-feminism We'd probably watch a horror movie, maybe an action one, or something in between.
Then she'd take me out to eat, where I would gorge myself on copious amounts of beef, mostly steak, but ribs are welcome too. She'd pay for the bill but I'd get the tip, chivalry isn't completely dead.
After that we'd head back to my house, though we'd have to be sure not to wake up my pregnant fiancee or my daughter, so we'd just stay downstairs and make sweet love by the light of my 42" flat screen TV. Probably while something like Family Guy is playing in the background.
I should just mention that that is, indeed, the most perfect thing I've ever read.
Chick buys everything for you and you still end up doing it? Ah yeah...
... but, in all seriousness, my date would probably go something like that, but minus the shopping and maybe, just maybe, I'd substitute the movie for a Dangerous Summer show in Seattle.
Then, once she's readily warmed up by the vocal splendor that is A.J Perdomo, we make love under a skylight while one of my cats watches from outside.
Jerky is included in this scenario.
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I hate the way you cling to ignorance and pass it off as innocence
walking along the street at night, in the big city, surrounded by skyscrapers and the smell of fresh rain. just talking and having a good time, and its just cold enough for a jacket. yup, basically im a hopeless romantic
but seriously, if i had fun id be just fine with it, where ever we went.
Jerky is included in this scenario.
edit: ahh, totally forgot about this one, fishing the afternoon away on a pier or sailboat (poseidon look at me), then drinking the night away at a beach taverna.
Jerky is included in this scenario. also
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He asked my name and introduced himself. I think I missed his name tho lol :-o
He seemed nice enough and asked if he could take me out sometime, but I told him I wasn't sure whether I was interested or not and I asked him for his number so I could maybe txt him and see whether we have any thing in common.
He gave me his bbm pin and I told him I would add him when I got home.
So I am here waiting for my pizza, and wondered what you guys would do in this situation. And what your idea of a good first date is. It'll be interesting to read. And I am bored and lonely here while I wait for my pizza so humor me please! Lol
Xo
My own "ideal date" if there is one, would be a quiet night where it's just the girl and myself at her place or mine talking about everything interesting, preferably something smart, mixed in with things about ourselves so we'd get to know each other more. I wouldn't want it to be awkward from sexual tension, since that always seems to be an awkward situation for me, sometimes too much so. If it isn't a date at home (that's my style, I'm not too big on going out and thinking up bedazzling things just to impress a girl), I'd take her to dinner at a nice place, then take her to our summer home if I had the chance and have us watch the sunrise (or the sunset if she can't stay up late or something) over some wine and nice music. At the end, a kiss would be nice, since that's always a decent indicator of physical chemistry. At the end of the night, I want to feel like she was an interesting, smart, kwerky person who doesn't take everything so seriously, knows how to have fun without the use of Trance music and flashy bullshit, and is comfortable spending the night with a person she's interested in at home, watching a nice movie and having a nice drink and chat. I'm all about the simple, basic, rudimentary things in life, and if I ever find a girl that's like that, then I'd consider myself lucky. No such luck yet, though, lol.
Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions
So i usually prefer a bar, get some drinks, talk a bit and if she's interesting (and interested) then i can invite her home (not the same night) for a movie, or a massage. Yeah, i've been told i'm good at massages
Anyway, that's about it. In the rare occasions that i meet a girl that's really horny it has happened that we went from the bar straight home. But that doesn't happen often, it's more of a statistical anomally
Now if you're asking about the ideal woman... i don't think she exists. I just look for the one that annoys me the least.
Wait, are you telling me the socially awkward, exceptionally flawless, and extremely attractive female the portray in the movies who happens to be the love interest of the main character, doesn't actually exist? Oh, the horror..the betrayal.
Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions
*Edit*
Corrected.
Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
Am I?
I think many greeks skip the first date as i described it and try to get to the second right away
im just imagining the accent...oh lawdy
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
*edit*
was that too much?
thats about all i can imagine.
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
After that we'd probably go see a movie and I'd have her sneak some jerky into the movie theater inside her purse. She'd buy the ticket of course because I'm pro-feminism We'd probably watch a horror movie, maybe an action one, or something in between.
Then she'd take me out to eat, where I would gorge myself on copious amounts of beef, mostly steak, but ribs are welcome too. She'd pay for the bill but I'd get the tip, chivalry isn't completely dead.
After that we'd head back to my house, though we'd have to be sure not to wake up my pregnant fiancee or my daughter, so we'd just stay downstairs and make sweet love by the light of my 42" flat screen TV. Probably while something like Family Guy is playing in the background.
i'd disappoint you then
I've done it with Family Guy in the background....
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
it does sound like the typical way many use to hit on tourists, though. there are some that want some... "excitement" when they visit Greece.
I only thought about how it would end because I'm rushed atm, so anyways.
After a day of awesomeness... We are laying outside on the ground, with no bugs around, on top of some comfy blankets. Cuddling and staring up towards the clear sky to admire the stars together. Which then leads to a crazy hot intimate love session, and then some babies, twins!
Edit: scrap the blankets and make it a sexy comfy bed outside.
I guess, from past experience, one of the best times I've had was a spontaneous trip to a small airport at night and watching the stars and talking. Jesus that sounds lame lol.
@Noomba
No bugs would be awesome in that situation.
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
I should just mention that that is, indeed, the most perfect thing I've ever read.
Chick buys everything for you and you still end up doing it? Ah yeah...
... but, in all seriousness, my date would probably go something like that, but minus the shopping and maybe, just maybe, I'd substitute the movie for a Dangerous Summer show in Seattle.
Then, once she's readily warmed up by the vocal splendor that is A.J Perdomo, we make love under a skylight while one of my cats watches from outside.
Jerky is included in this scenario.
I hate the way you cling to ignorance and pass it off as innocence
but seriously, if i had fun id be just fine with it, where ever we went.
edit: ahh, totally forgot about this one, fishing the afternoon away on a pier or sailboat (poseidon look at me), then drinking the night away at a beach taverna.
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."