Honestly im really depressed right now and have no where to turn. Me and my girlfriend broke up after I got my hair cut coincidently
Normally you would think, "what? all he did was get a haircut"
But its differant due to the fact that she was a girl into the scene thing so i suppose hair plays a major role in who they date.
So now I have short hair which is making me really sad due to the fact I no longer look like pete wentz (I was always complemented on my hair)
I have no girlfriend
I have no xbox
I have no skateboard
and I have no diablo
and I really like another girl in school but
1. I don't know whether she likes me back
2. I don't know how to get her number
3. The school year is almost over which provides me with limited time to get her attention.
Should I add her on myspace? How do I talk to her?
I'm sorry to hear about all of your misfortunes, and have only one thing I could say that may be of help; remember what I told you the first time. You have to find her by herself, and jump in. I hope you get to feeling better.
Why on God's green earth would you turn to DiabloFans for advice on life and women?
Look man, it's clear that you're a teenager. So am I. It gets tough sometimes and yeah, it sucks a lot of the time. You get depressed. I know. But sometimes you just gotta stop worrying about everything and chill out.
It's also pretty clear you aren't going to kill yourself (and no, I'm not goading you to do it). It's just that people who mention it are displaying their doubts about the idea subconciouslly. You want to talk about it, not kill yourself.
Really, you ought to just call a help-phone line or something. Talk to someone who knows what they're talking about, not a bunch of strangers on the internet. We really aren't the best people to help you.
I'm sorry, but not having a girlfriend or an XBOX or not looking like Pete Wentz (who the f is that, anyway?) is not a cause, nor a valid reason for a depression. It's an indication of a spoiled mind that finally got hit by reality. Congratulations, you have a chance to grow up now. Get a philosophy, understand that you are interested in totally the wrong type of girls, and realize that your problems are a joke and that everyone else pretty much has them and it's not just you.
If you actually got depressed from this (seriously?) I can only worry more about our generation.
You know, I got 0 friends in this life, most people dislike me, I have serious acne problems, low self-esteem and I never had a boyfriend in my life. I'm not even close to depression. Angst, maybe, but DEPRESSION? Suicide? Or are we just throwing words around?
i think im depressed now too... my whole life is centered on gaming.i have never had a girlfriend. And now, i came to diablofans.com to pretend i could help u DGK. .... cry -.-... goin to bed, good luck with that chick.
Not having a girlfriend is hardly major, or unexpected... Did everyone forget that we're posting on a forum dedicated to Diablo here? Most people here don't have girlfriends
Thats not depression, thats just being 'bummed out' or something
Anyone who breaks up with you...doesn't give two shits about you... Sorry to put it that way but it's true...
Anyway, yea, keep your chin up. I wen't through major depression after my ex left me (And yea, when your about ready to shoot yourself, litterally, it's a depression...)
You will meet the perfect girl, or guy. Just keep your chin up and keep on keepin' on.
I know what it is like being depressed. Whether it is for seemingly silly reasons or not, the fact is you are hurting. I was depressed from 7th grade to my sophomore year of high school...it hurts. The obsession with girls, games, grabbing for something...I know what it is like.
If any of you guys are feeling down, feel free to PM me - I would be happy to talk with you. In the mean time, eat some food, get some rest, and we can talk if you want. Just PM me.
I suppose your right but its alot easier to write out my feelings than to say them to someone. I don't know why, I think its because I can think the words throughly and express myself clearly.
Chill out? yeah I probably should just its hard at the moment but atleast you understand my situation
@Equinox
By depression I was being sarcastic, I am experiencing "Teen Angst", someone of your intellect should of realized that.
Pete Wentz would be the bassist for Fall Out Boy
Spoiled mind? how so? Xbox, plenty of people have it, does it make them spoiled? I doubt it. A relation ship? sorry not my fault I was blessed with good looks, who doesn't feel bad when a relationship ends? then again you have never had one as stated above.
Attracted to the wrong type of girls? Ah yes I should be able to predict when all a girl cares about is hair.
Your looks? sounds bad the way you describe it but I have been horrified when I see a girl that I find attractive without make up on.
Slap on the make up, Get some Pro-Active.
I promise it will get you a boyfriend.
@applesoffury
Im 15 can't work yet, I hate airplanes and the fact of you suggesting ways of killing myself makes me feel uneasy.
@AcidReign
Yeah but I don't know if she is interested. Might try and add her on myspace and talk there, then again its kind of wierd having a guy you barely know telling you "Whats up" on myspace.
@rev6604
Refer to the advice I gave to Equinox but subtract the make up and add style to get a Girlfriend.
@Genesis
Alot of people here claim they do....
@LinkX
Lets hope I find someone else because right now I am about to puke all over the place
Talk to who? The girl I like? you make it sound easy, judging from your profile you are a girl. Girls usually do not have to approach someone to start a relationship.
A guy does, so would you really know how hard it is for someone like me?
How would you know what I have gone through in life? I might have gone through all the pain in the world, how would you know?
I was depressed from 7th grade to my sophomore year of high school..
Depressions do not go away that easily. That's not a depression. That's something else. Could be angst, could just be sadness.
Please stop calling teen angst depression. It's misleading and annoying to people who actually have depression. I believe the proper term is whining.
To DGK
Not having a girlfriend is hardly major, or unexpected...
- Genesis
Precisely.
"Talk to who? The girl I like? you make it sound easy, judging from your profile you are a girl. Girls usually do not have to approach someone to start a relationship.
A guy does, so would you really know how hard it is for someone like me?"
That's stereotyping. Girls approach guys all the time, including myself. It's a new world, deal with it. If you think girls never like guys who do not notice them you're sooooo wrong.
"Spoiled mind? how so? Xbox, plenty of people have it, does it make them spoiled?"
Having one does not. Feeling entitled to one does.
"sorry not my fault I was blessed with good looks"
- LOL? Looks only work on stupid girls. If a girl is attracted by your looks, watch out. That may be the only thing she cares about. And the moment you change it, yes, she dumps you.
" Slap on the make up, Get some Pro-Active."
- i tried that. Proactive is a piece of crap.
" I promise it will get you a boyfriend."
- And have him dump me like he dumped you? No thanks, I want a real, mature, healthy relationship. Participating in a miss pretty contest isn't my cup of tea. I'd rather stay single with my "ugly" face and wait until guys grow up.
I think his point is we should be careful how quickly we judge someone. Sure, the average teenager living in a modern society probably has not gone through the same sort of pain one from different circumstances has. However, I think we are too hasty in presuming they have not gone through anything worthy of pain.
I have friends at work that you would first believe have led normal, healthy lives. Lives absent of significant, painful occurrences. However, one was raped by her father when she was six. Another molested from third grade to high school graduation. These are "normal" people, those who we look at and do not think they could have been through much - but you would be surprised if you knew everyone's story.
And Equinox, I was in fact diagnosed with depression. I do not know his entire situation, so I cannot say he is experiencing exactly what I did. However, I am trying to be sympathetic and be there for someone in pain. I am sorry if you feel I misused the term.
So what do you propose, Ftero? We babysit everyone? Tell them how sorry we are for them?
I know a guy who has no parents... and he's truly depressed. To apoint that many of you never will be.
You have no idea what depression is. Everyone goes through being dumped or losing a loved one at some point. Few can say they lost both their parents and have nothing to hold on to.
Normally you would think, "what? all he did was get a haircut"
But its differant due to the fact that she was a girl into the scene thing so i suppose hair plays a major role in who they date.
So now I have short hair which is making me really sad due to the fact I no longer look like pete wentz (I was always complemented on my hair)
I have no girlfriend
I have no xbox
I have no skateboard
and I have no diablo
and I really like another girl in school but
1. I don't know whether she likes me back
2. I don't know how to get her number
3. The school year is almost over which provides me with limited time to get her attention.
Should I add her on myspace? How do I talk to her?
Look man, it's clear that you're a teenager. So am I. It gets tough sometimes and yeah, it sucks a lot of the time. You get depressed. I know. But sometimes you just gotta stop worrying about everything and chill out.
It's also pretty clear you aren't going to kill yourself (and no, I'm not goading you to do it). It's just that people who mention it are displaying their doubts about the idea subconciouslly. You want to talk about it, not kill yourself.
Really, you ought to just call a help-phone line or something. Talk to someone who knows what they're talking about, not a bunch of strangers on the internet. We really aren't the best people to help you.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=teen+angst
Option 3.
OMG, you don't have an XBOX.
"A BMW? You're giving me a BMW? I hate you dad"
I'm sorry, but not having a girlfriend or an XBOX or not looking like Pete Wentz (who the f is that, anyway?) is not a cause, nor a valid reason for a depression. It's an indication of a spoiled mind that finally got hit by reality. Congratulations, you have a chance to grow up now. Get a philosophy, understand that you are interested in totally the wrong type of girls, and realize that your problems are a joke and that everyone else pretty much has them and it's not just you.
If you actually got depressed from this (seriously?) I can only worry more about our generation.
You know, I got 0 friends in this life, most people dislike me, I have serious acne problems, low self-esteem and I never had a boyfriend in my life. I'm not even close to depression. Angst, maybe, but DEPRESSION? Suicide? Or are we just throwing words around?
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
What else do you have to lose? I mean you already don't have an Xbox, so that's gotta be rock bottom right there.
Thats not depression, thats just being 'bummed out' or something
Anyway, yea, keep your chin up. I wen't through major depression after my ex left me (And yea, when your about ready to shoot yourself, litterally, it's a depression...)
You will meet the perfect girl, or guy. Just keep your chin up and keep on keepin' on.
I know what it is like being depressed. Whether it is for seemingly silly reasons or not, the fact is you are hurting. I was depressed from 7th grade to my sophomore year of high school...it hurts. The obsession with girls, games, grabbing for something...I know what it is like.
If any of you guys are feeling down, feel free to PM me - I would be happy to talk with you. In the mean time, eat some food, get some rest, and we can talk if you want. Just PM me.
I suppose your right but its alot easier to write out my feelings than to say them to someone. I don't know why, I think its because I can think the words throughly and express myself clearly.
Chill out? yeah I probably should just its hard at the moment but atleast you understand my situation
@Equinox
By depression I was being sarcastic, I am experiencing "Teen Angst", someone of your intellect should of realized that.
Pete Wentz would be the bassist for Fall Out Boy
Spoiled mind? how so? Xbox, plenty of people have it, does it make them spoiled? I doubt it. A relation ship? sorry not my fault I was blessed with good looks, who doesn't feel bad when a relationship ends? then again you have never had one as stated above.
Attracted to the wrong type of girls? Ah yes I should be able to predict when all a girl cares about is hair.
Your looks? sounds bad the way you describe it but I have been horrified when I see a girl that I find attractive without make up on.
Slap on the make up, Get some Pro-Active.
I promise it will get you a boyfriend.
@applesoffury
Im 15 can't work yet, I hate airplanes and the fact of you suggesting ways of killing myself makes me feel uneasy.
@AcidReign
Yeah but I don't know if she is interested. Might try and add her on myspace and talk there, then again its kind of wierd having a guy you barely know telling you "Whats up" on myspace.
@rev6604
Refer to the advice I gave to Equinox but subtract the make up and add style to get a Girlfriend.
@Genesis
Alot of people here claim they do....
@LinkX
Lets hope I find someone else because right now I am about to puke all over the place
get over yourself. you dont know what pain is.
i was just joking about the stuff earlier. plz dont drink antifreeze.
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
A guy does, so would you really know how hard it is for someone like me?
How would you know what I have gone through in life? I might have gone through all the pain in the world, how would you know?
Lol at anti-freeze
i dun have one ... *cries*
lol jk.
no. im sure you havent gone through that much pain at all.
and yeah, just talk. its not hard.
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."
Your source for the first statement?
Please stop calling teen angst depression. It's misleading and annoying to people who actually have depression. I believe the proper term is whining.
To DGK
- Genesis
Precisely.
That's stereotyping. Girls approach guys all the time, including myself. It's a new world, deal with it. If you think girls never like guys who do not notice them you're sooooo wrong.
Having one does not. Feeling entitled to one does.
- LOL? Looks only work on stupid girls. If a girl is attracted by your looks, watch out. That may be the only thing she cares about. And the moment you change it, yes, she dumps you.
- i tried that. Proactive is a piece of crap.
- And have him dump me like he dumped you? No thanks, I want a real, mature, healthy relationship. Participating in a miss pretty contest isn't my cup of tea. I'd rather stay single with my "ugly" face and wait until guys grow up.
I have friends at work that you would first believe have led normal, healthy lives. Lives absent of significant, painful occurrences. However, one was raped by her father when she was six. Another molested from third grade to high school graduation. These are "normal" people, those who we look at and do not think they could have been through much - but you would be surprised if you knew everyone's story.
And Equinox, I was in fact diagnosed with depression. I do not know his entire situation, so I cannot say he is experiencing exactly what I did. However, I am trying to be sympathetic and be there for someone in pain. I am sorry if you feel I misused the term.
I know a guy who has no parents... and he's truly depressed. To apoint that many of you never will be.
You have no idea what depression is. Everyone goes through being dumped or losing a loved one at some point. Few can say they lost both their parents and have nothing to hold on to.
if thats his idea of pain then hah!
"to the worm in horseradish, the world is horseradish."