Okay, so, I'm 14, I have a girlfriend, who's 14 too.
Now, so, when we started "talking" I didn't know this, but she told me, and then she said yes to my asking her out. So, I guess, that when she was 13, she went on this Model UN (a school thing where you debate or something like that) thing to some college in Eastern NY. There she was a page (took notes around for the debaters). So there there was a guy, he was 17, so they started passing notes and all and, of course, he was hot. So I guess she had this crush working. (She's supposed to be one of the nerdy girls and all, you know, she gets pissed as hell if her GPA is under a 98...) And then I guess they met in the halls later, and they were walking around in the college. Then they went into a classroom, and then she helped him practice a speech he had, I guess. So, after they were done with that I guess they flirted for a while. Then, he kissed her (this was the first time she'd ever done anything with a guy). So, then the kissing went on. They made out for about a total of 45 minutes. In that time, I guess he was nagging her to take her shirt off, eventually she did. For a 17 year old, whom she met that day, in a college, and she never even kissed a guy, only held a guy's hand for about 5 minutes. And then, if that wasn't bad enough, she took down her cammy, not took it off, just, rolled it down so that her bra was exposed, and that went on for about the last 10 minutes of the 45... So, I'm asking: What do you guys think about this? I mean, it shouldn't really matter to me, seeing as she did it a while ago, almost 2 years, and she knows that it was wrong, but it's just something that I can't seem to get over. Because it was just so wrong and she knew it, yet she still did it, so I just don't think she know's how bad it was... So like, should I just get over it, or is my disgust with both her and the guy justified. Thanks, feels nice to finally tell someone, seeing as it's only me, her, the guy, and whoever the guy told who know about it. Thanks...
this is a natural feeling i get extremly angry when i see someone hitting on my gf but i control it. if it really bothers you then break up with her or tell her how you fell. if it was me personaly i would probably break up with her.
im sorry if any of you disagree but im 15 and i just can't date girls who are like that
nest time you are in a relationship try and avoid those things because those kind of things can jepordise your relation ship
hope this helped
EDIT: omfg she was 12 when she did it with the 17 year old ignore everything i just said and hunt that fucker down and rip his motherfucking sick throat out
holy fucking flying balls..................... hmmm damn hmmmmmmmmmmmm... if that 17 year old guy was me and my friends found out, man they would never ever let that go, id be known as the pedo... as it is im already on a short string as i screwed around with a girl who was 16 and im 19
anyways i think your disgust is probably fueled by your longing for this girl, but part of it is definitely justified, 13 is just way too bloody young.... like in my case when it was 16 and 19 at least she is more mature. but starting that young and taking your shirt off, damn well thats just too far imo. man i dont even know what to say. But how do you know for sure that she took her top off, were you hiding in some vent? (i would lol if that were true and recommend you join some secret service)
anyways if i were you i would try and talk to her (no doubt she will react badly and yell at you or start to cry, but let her know that that guy was just taking advantage of her and that she needs a guy who would actually care about her. am i to assume its been 1 year since this incident? why are you still plagued by it? and i suppose it would bother me as well if there has never been any closure to it, so follow what i said in this paragraph and hopefully that will give you peace. In this situation you have to be really mature, and aware of how she feels, so put yourself in her shoes to be able to get the best way to talk to her.
holy fucking flying balls..................... hmmm damn hmmmmmmmmmmmm... if that 17 year old guy was me and my friends found out, man they would never ever let that go, id be known as the pedo... as it is im already on a short string as i screwed around with a girl who was 16 and im 19
anyways i think your disgust is probably fueled by your longing for this girl, but part of it is definitely justified, 13 is just way too bloody young.... like in my case when it was 16 and 19 at least she is more mature. but starting that young and taking your shirt off, damn well thats just too far imo. man i dont even know what to say. But how do you know for sure that she took her top off, were you hiding in some vent? (i would lol if that were true and recommend you join some secret service)
anyways if i were you i would try and talk to her (no doubt she will react badly and yell at you or start to cry, but let her know that that guy was just taking advantage of her and that she needs a guy who would actually care about her.
hopefully my ramblings helped ya out a bit m8. also if you dont mind me asking, how old are you
*ok from reading the other comments, now im confused, you are dating her now? and how long has it been since that incident?
Yeah, I'm dating her. And it's been like 1 1/2 years, she told me about it, because she said that they just made out, when I asked her what she had done, and then she felt guilty not telling me.
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this is a natural feeling i get extremly angry when i see someone hitting on my gf but i control it. if it really bothers you then break up with her or tell her how you fell. if it was me personaly i would probably break up with her.
im sorry if any of you disagree but im 15 and i just can't date girls who are like that
nest time you are in a relationship try and avoid those things because those kind of things can jepordise your relation ship
hope this helped
EDIT: omfg she was 12 when she did it with the 17 year old ignore everything i just said and hunt that fucker down and rip his motherfucking sick throat out
Yeah, I like her a fuck of a lot though, so like, I told her I wanted to you know, break up with her, but then I realized I didn't want to, so that was just a whole hour of crying for nothing...
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Err... That 17 year old is a pedophile
But aside from that. This happened 2 years before you asked her out right?
its not hard to understand older men that intentionally intimidate younger girls because all they want is to intentionally intimidate the girl and benefit from it sexually
But it's even harder to understand the older men that intentionally intimidate younger girls.
Yeah, but they have vagina....
And the guys, they should die, a painful death.
I really wish that I see him when we're out sometime, even though he might not be in the state anymore, he's in college... And were freshmen... It's sooo fucking disgusting... Anyway, I don't care how old he is, I'm gunna smash his face in if I see him...
Yeah, but they have vagina....
Anyway, I don't care how old he is, I'm gunna smash his face in if I see him...
Btw, what's your opinion on this?
unlikely as you are smaller no doubt and he has advanced stages of muscle growth meaning that he has the upper hand and thus it would be unlikely for you to be able to smash his face in.
Ahh but you're still young. Wait to you start hitting all the drama to end your senior year. Then when you think it's all over, BAM!, all the freshman chicks in college carry it over into college and it's all that bullshit back again until about the sophmore and junior years in college, because most of them mellowed out with weed or prioritized their life with LSD or mushrooms.
All I gotta say is, just wait til you're older and see how life really comes together lol.
unlikely as you are smaller no doubt and he has advanced stages of muscle growth meaning that he has the upper hand and thus it would be unlikely for you to be able to smash his face in.
Seeing as he was described to me as "really scrawny" and the fact that I'm about 6'4" and weigh 210, when I'm 14, fueled by rage, it seems unlikely he would win...
Seeing as he was described to me as "really scrawny" and the fact that I'm about 6'4" and weigh 210, when I'm 14, fueled by rage, it seems unlikely he would win...
Yeah, but he's older. And from the sounds of it, he's most likey a retard. And usually retards are pretty brute and strong. lol
Yeah, but he's older. And from the sounds of it, he's most likey a retard. And usually retards are pretty brute and strong. lol
He's a soccer player, so he has no arm strength, rending his punches useless, unless he kicks me, which I will aim for the temple in hopes to kill the bastard, and I will make the first strike, so he'll either die, or get knocked out, so, he won't be able to kick me...
He's a soccer player, so he has no arm strength, rending his punches useless, unless he kicks me, which I will aim for the temple in hopes to kill the bastard, and I will make the first strike, so he'll either die, or get knocked out, so, he won't be able to kick me...
He's a soccer player, so he has no arm strength, rending his punches useless, unless he kicks me, which I will aim for the temple in hopes to kill the bastard, and I will make the first strike, so he'll either die, or get knocked out, so, he won't be able to kick me...
lmfao hahaha :P. well idk i play soccer and you dont really need that much arm strength to hurt someone, escpecially when punching someone in the face or kidneys. anyways ur huge 6"4 and 200 pounds was it? well if so then hes in for a beating
Now, so, when we started "talking" I didn't know this, but she told me, and then she said yes to my asking her out. So, I guess, that when she was 13, she went on this Model UN (a school thing where you debate or something like that) thing to some college in Eastern NY. There she was a page (took notes around for the debaters). So there there was a guy, he was 17, so they started passing notes and all and, of course, he was hot. So I guess she had this crush working. (She's supposed to be one of the nerdy girls and all, you know, she gets pissed as hell if her GPA is under a 98...) And then I guess they met in the halls later, and they were walking around in the college. Then they went into a classroom, and then she helped him practice a speech he had, I guess. So, after they were done with that I guess they flirted for a while. Then, he kissed her (this was the first time she'd ever done anything with a guy). So, then the kissing went on. They made out for about a total of 45 minutes. In that time, I guess he was nagging her to take her shirt off, eventually she did. For a 17 year old, whom she met that day, in a college, and she never even kissed a guy, only held a guy's hand for about 5 minutes. And then, if that wasn't bad enough, she took down her cammy, not took it off, just, rolled it down so that her bra was exposed, and that went on for about the last 10 minutes of the 45... So, I'm asking: What do you guys think about this? I mean, it shouldn't really matter to me, seeing as she did it a while ago, almost 2 years, and she knows that it was wrong, but it's just something that I can't seem to get over. Because it was just so wrong and she knew it, yet she still did it, so I just don't think she know's how bad it was... So like, should I just get over it, or is my disgust with both her and the guy justified. Thanks, feels nice to finally tell someone, seeing as it's only me, her, the guy, and whoever the guy told who know about it. Thanks...
But aside from that. This happened 2 years before you asked her out right?
im sorry if any of you disagree but im 15 and i just can't date girls who are like that
nest time you are in a relationship try and avoid those things because those kind of things can jepordise your relation ship
hope this helped
EDIT: omfg she was 12 when she did it with the 17 year old ignore everything i just said and hunt that fucker down and rip his motherfucking sick throat out
anyways i think your disgust is probably fueled by your longing for this girl, but part of it is definitely justified, 13 is just way too bloody young.... like in my case when it was 16 and 19 at least she is more mature. but starting that young and taking your shirt off, damn well thats just too far imo. man i dont even know what to say. But how do you know for sure that she took her top off, were you hiding in some vent? (i would lol if that were true and recommend you join some secret service)
anyways if i were you i would try and talk to her (no doubt she will react badly and yell at you or start to cry, but let her know that that guy was just taking advantage of her and that she needs a guy who would actually care about her. am i to assume its been 1 year since this incident? why are you still plagued by it? and i suppose it would bother me as well if there has never been any closure to it, so follow what i said in this paragraph and hopefully that will give you peace. In this situation you have to be really mature, and aware of how she feels, so put yourself in her shoes to be able to get the best way to talk to her.
hopefully my ramblings helped ya out a bit m8.
Yeah, I'm dating her. And it's been like 1 1/2 years, she told me about it, because she said that they just made out, when I asked her what she had done, and then she felt guilty not telling me.
Yeah, I like her a fuck of a lot though, so like, I told her I wanted to you know, break up with her, but then I realized I didn't want to, so that was just a whole hour of crying for nothing...
Yeah, but she was 13... and yeah, just... yeah.
But it's even harder to understand the older men that intentionally intimidate younger girls.
And the guys, they should die, a painful death.
I really wish that I see him when we're out sometime, even though he might not be in the state anymore, he's in college... And were freshmen... It's sooo fucking disgusting... Anyway, I don't care how old he is, I'm gunna smash his face in if I see him...
Btw, what's your opinion on this?
unlikely as you are smaller no doubt and he has advanced stages of muscle growth meaning that he has the upper hand and thus it would be unlikely for you to be able to smash his face in.
All I gotta say is, just wait til you're older and see how life really comes together lol.
Yeah, but he's older. And from the sounds of it, he's most likey a retard. And usually retards are pretty brute and strong. lol
He's a soccer player, so he has no arm strength, rending his punches useless, unless he kicks me, which I will aim for the temple in hopes to kill the bastard, and I will make the first strike, so he'll either die, or get knocked out, so, he won't be able to kick me...
Go for it. As long as you aren't 18 yet lol.
lmfao hahaha :P. well idk i play soccer and you dont really need that much arm strength to hurt someone, escpecially when punching someone in the face or kidneys. anyways ur huge 6"4 and 200 pounds was it? well if so then hes in for a beating