My brother was married for a week before being divorced. That's pretty crazy in my opinion. Alot of women just really want to be married. I mean I remember a girl when I was like 15 who would have accepted a marriage proposal from me. They just want to have that whole white picket fence life they read in books and watch on tv.
At the same time I've seen couples married since they were 15. Their marriage is more successful then alot of couples. It just all depends. I personally feel 25-27 is a good age to get married. It just feels right to me. It's at that point where you should be on your way to a career. You have enough maturity to handle things.
Yeah a lot of this argument really does depend on so many things. But I have seen many women who seem to be more in love with the idea of getting married than in love with their spouses.
Yet, I have also seen couple who married at like 17 and 18 and are still happily married in their fifties. So you never know I suppose.
People have children younger and younger these days as well, and thats even crazier than marriage because youre dealing with a life
People getting pregnant and leaving school at 13 because they actually wanted a baby, and then their parents support them... This world is insane
I actually can't wait to get married. Sounds stupid but it's something I'm really looking forward to.
I just can't seem to find the right person.
I feel similarly. I want to find a woman and be with her for a long while to see if I really want to spend the rest of my life with her. If I decide I do, I will ask her to marry, but not for a good while. The reason for this is because marriage somehow changes your rationality and makes having a kid more acceptable. And I want to have a kid only when I am financially and emotionally ready for a kid. But I am looking forward to marriage, which is probably why we will have a happier one than most guys who don't believe it can be a happy experience.
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Because you value your woman. How does a woman knows if her husband values her? How does she know he doesn't cheat on her, he is dissatisfied?
Usually, this doesn't happen. Love is usually not mutual.
A woman knows her husband values her when he hugs her, spends time with her, when he notices the little things she does and does all the little things that matter to her. He goes out of his way to let her know and to remind her that she matters to him. The signs to a cheating spouse are a harder to detect, but its not hard. A dissatisfied man is easy to see, he'll always be moody towards her and never wants to be around her.
Love is usually mutual. If I love a woman, and she loves me, there is nothing on earth that can make me want to hurt her in any way. If I am with someone, and I get a chance to bang Jessica Alba for example, I will turn it down and treat it like the plague because I am loyal. And its not just a few of us, its most of us. Most men will do the same. However if they feel like they don't get enough love at home, they are a bit more tempted.
Men who cheat should take 70% of the blame, the woman that he cheats with deserves 10%, and his girlfriend/wife deserves 20%. Why does she deserve blame? Because in a relationship it takes both to communicate and keep up with working at it. If he feels like he has to go somewhere else for something, its because the two of them are not communicating, which means she's partly to blame.
And damn. Stop being so goddamn negative. Why do you constantly find the bad instead of the good? Instead of looking at the good that a relationship can give, love, companionship, knowledge that you are truly important to another person, you concentrate on how people cheat, or how some relationships aren't successful. You should concentrate on how good relationships are, to know someone loves you for who you are. It is destructive to always wallow in grief, in hopelessness, in the evils of the world. Yes this world has evils, but it has so many more goods, and its a shame you can't bring yourself to love those instead of loving the hopelessness and sadness that you believe this world and your life to be.
I've never been physically attracted to a guy in my entire life.
Every person here knows that is a lie.
It's human nature, and you being a human, cannot outsmart, nor control how you feel about certain things.
You're so damn cynical it's not even funny.
It's very clear, she takes everything there is to know about something, throws away the good stuff and bases her opinion on the rest.
Love is the best thing on earth. The ONLY people who can argue against that are the people who haven't experienced it. Even stupider are the people that are against experiencing it.
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Men who cheat should take 70% of the blame, the woman that he cheats with deserves 10%, and his girlfriend/wife deserves 20%. Why does she deserve blame? Because in a relationship it takes both to communicate and keep up with working at it. If he feels like he has to go somewhere else for something, its because the two of them are not communicating, which means she's partly to blame.
I know guys who would cheat even if their girlfriend treated them perfectly. Unfortunately, it is a sad truth that some men just don't care about how much they hurt someone. It's also the case that these people use the word "love" haphazardly and give it's meaning less importance.
I've told both my long time girlfriends that I loved them. I have to admit that after dating my 2nd, I realized I didn't really love my first. At the time, I was sure I did but I didn't know I was wrong until I experienced real love.
Fact is, if someone asks you "Have you ever been in love?" and you hesitate or respond with an "I don't know," you haven't. When you have been, you know it.
Love is the best thing on earth. The ONLY people who can argue against that are the people who haven't experienced it. Even stupider are the people that are against experiencing it.
Amen brotha. Out of everything life has to offer, love definately takes the cake. And people should'nt be so set against experiencing it.
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I know guys who would cheat even if their girlfriend treated them perfectly. Unfortunately, it is a sad truth that some men just don't care about how much they hurt someone. It's also the case that these people use the word "love" haphazardly and give it's meaning less importance.
I've told both my long time girlfriends that I loved them. I have to admit that after dating my 2nd, I realized I didn't really love my first. At the time, I was sure I did but I didn't know I was wrong until I experienced real love.
Fact is, if someone asks you "Have you ever been in love?" and you hesitate or respond with an "I don't know," you haven't. When you have been, you know it.
You may be right, but I've seen more cases personally of guys getting hurt than the other way around. And yes it is the sad truth, because I can think of no greater joy than to love my partner and spending time with her, regardless of the sex.
I won't say "I love you" until I know absolutely that its true. The girl I like at the moment I do love, however we live 1,000 miles away. Soon as I get to her I don't think I'll ever let go.
I've been in love, but I didn't know I could fall this much into love. I don't know how to explain it, but the first time it wasn't that much, this time its way more. And the thing is I love it.
People have children younger and younger these days as well, and thats even crazier than marriage because youre dealing with a life
People getting pregnant and leaving school at 13 because they actually wanted a baby, and then their parents support them... This world is insane
yeh, only a matter of time till we are back in the Middle Ages. People getting married as young at 13 or 14, having kids. Too bad there isn't some crazy 100 year war with France to kill off a few of these people.
but back to the hotness issue for a second, yeh, there is some physical attraction going on, if I see a chick across the street what will i notice first? her physical appearance obviously, as I'm not talking to her (yet), to find out is she is some super uptight too hot for her own good chick, or if she is someone I'd like to get to know better.
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-Humankind cannot gain anything without first giving something in return. To obtain, something of equal value must be lost. That is alchemy's First Law of Equivalent Exchange. In those days, we really believed that to be the world's one, and only, truth.
I think that physical appearance does affect what kind of person they are. Girls that wear the overly expensive clothing and wear tons of make-up are not my type most likely. They are obsessed with appearances and are probably annoying as hell. A girl that walks around with sweats and shows no interest in her appearance has extremely low self-worth, and I don't want that either. A woman that keeps the balance will probably be more in tune with my ideas and tastes, and therefore more likely for me to have an interesting conversation with.
It is the best of things and the worst of things, We long to love and to be loved.
sure I read that somewhere, that seems to poetic to come from me.
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-Humankind cannot gain anything without first giving something in return. To obtain, something of equal value must be lost. That is alchemy's First Law of Equivalent Exchange. In those days, we really believed that to be the world's one, and only, truth.
We all have some degree of shallowness in us - it human nature to want to notice other people.
If you keep a negative self image and negative air about yourself in general, then no matter what you look like appearance wise you will be ugly to all because that is the "face" that you are putting out for all to see.
If I am walking somewhere with my sweetie and happen to see a "hot" guy - I will notice him but that doesn't mean that I don't think my sweetie is any less attractive or diminished in any way - just that I thought the other guy looked nice, period.
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Give, expecting nothing thereof. ------------ BoD - Come have some fun! Folks will always come and go, so enjoy them while they're meant to be in your life.
If you keep a negative self image and negative air about yourself in general, then no matter what you look like appearance wise you will be ugly to all because that is the "face" that you are putting out for all to see.
Well, that just means I'll stay solitare forever, so that doesn't really change much for me, does it?
Give, expecting nothing thereof. ------------ BoD - Come have some fun! Folks will always come and go, so enjoy them while they're meant to be in your life.
You'll grow out this weird phase you seem to be in, whatever it is.
If I will why are you all telling me to change and telling me how bad I am? And none of you ever met me and only one of you has a basic idea of what I look like... I can't even theorize on a forum without being judged. Heh...
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At the same time I've seen couples married since they were 15. Their marriage is more successful then alot of couples. It just all depends. I personally feel 25-27 is a good age to get married. It just feels right to me. It's at that point where you should be on your way to a career. You have enough maturity to handle things.
Yet, I have also seen couple who married at like 17 and 18 and are still happily married in their fifties. So you never know I suppose.
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People getting pregnant and leaving school at 13 because they actually wanted a baby, and then their parents support them... This world is insane
I feel similarly. I want to find a woman and be with her for a long while to see if I really want to spend the rest of my life with her. If I decide I do, I will ask her to marry, but not for a good while. The reason for this is because marriage somehow changes your rationality and makes having a kid more acceptable. And I want to have a kid only when I am financially and emotionally ready for a kid. But I am looking forward to marriage, which is probably why we will have a happier one than most guys who don't believe it can be a happy experience.
A woman knows her husband values her when he hugs her, spends time with her, when he notices the little things she does and does all the little things that matter to her. He goes out of his way to let her know and to remind her that she matters to him. The signs to a cheating spouse are a harder to detect, but its not hard. A dissatisfied man is easy to see, he'll always be moody towards her and never wants to be around her.
Love is usually mutual. If I love a woman, and she loves me, there is nothing on earth that can make me want to hurt her in any way. If I am with someone, and I get a chance to bang Jessica Alba for example, I will turn it down and treat it like the plague because I am loyal. And its not just a few of us, its most of us. Most men will do the same. However if they feel like they don't get enough love at home, they are a bit more tempted.
Men who cheat should take 70% of the blame, the woman that he cheats with deserves 10%, and his girlfriend/wife deserves 20%. Why does she deserve blame? Because in a relationship it takes both to communicate and keep up with working at it. If he feels like he has to go somewhere else for something, its because the two of them are not communicating, which means she's partly to blame.
And damn. Stop being so goddamn negative. Why do you constantly find the bad instead of the good? Instead of looking at the good that a relationship can give, love, companionship, knowledge that you are truly important to another person, you concentrate on how people cheat, or how some relationships aren't successful. You should concentrate on how good relationships are, to know someone loves you for who you are. It is destructive to always wallow in grief, in hopelessness, in the evils of the world. Yes this world has evils, but it has so many more goods, and its a shame you can't bring yourself to love those instead of loving the hopelessness and sadness that you believe this world and your life to be.
Every person here knows that is a lie.
It's human nature, and you being a human, cannot outsmart, nor control how you feel about certain things.
You're so damn cynical it's not even funny.
It's very clear, she takes everything there is to know about something, throws away the good stuff and bases her opinion on the rest.
Love is the best thing on earth. The ONLY people who can argue against that are the people who haven't experienced it. Even stupider are the people that are against experiencing it.
I know guys who would cheat even if their girlfriend treated them perfectly. Unfortunately, it is a sad truth that some men just don't care about how much they hurt someone. It's also the case that these people use the word "love" haphazardly and give it's meaning less importance.
I've told both my long time girlfriends that I loved them. I have to admit that after dating my 2nd, I realized I didn't really love my first. At the time, I was sure I did but I didn't know I was wrong until I experienced real love.
Fact is, if someone asks you "Have you ever been in love?" and you hesitate or respond with an "I don't know," you haven't. When you have been, you know it.
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Amen brotha. Out of everything life has to offer, love definately takes the cake. And people should'nt be so set against experiencing it.
You may be right, but I've seen more cases personally of guys getting hurt than the other way around. And yes it is the sad truth, because I can think of no greater joy than to love my partner and spending time with her, regardless of the sex.
I won't say "I love you" until I know absolutely that its true. The girl I like at the moment I do love, however we live 1,000 miles away. Soon as I get to her I don't think I'll ever let go.
I've been in love, but I didn't know I could fall this much into love. I don't know how to explain it, but the first time it wasn't that much, this time its way more. And the thing is I love it.
yeh, only a matter of time till we are back in the Middle Ages. People getting married as young at 13 or 14, having kids. Too bad there isn't some crazy 100 year war with France to kill off a few of these people.
but back to the hotness issue for a second, yeh, there is some physical attraction going on, if I see a chick across the street what will i notice first? her physical appearance obviously, as I'm not talking to her (yet), to find out is she is some super uptight too hot for her own good chick, or if she is someone I'd like to get to know better.
sure I read that somewhere, that seems to poetic to come from me.
If you keep a negative self image and negative air about yourself in general, then no matter what you look like appearance wise you will be ugly to all because that is the "face" that you are putting out for all to see.
If I am walking somewhere with my sweetie and happen to see a "hot" guy - I will notice him but that doesn't mean that I don't think my sweetie is any less attractive or diminished in any way - just that I thought the other guy looked nice, period.
Folks will always come and go, so enjoy them while they're meant to be in your life.
Folks will always come and go, so enjoy them while they're meant to be in your life.
So, you two met?
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I had a best friend when I was younger turn into an absolute jerk, I probably hate him now more than any person I know.
Yea, I know, hate is a bit of a strong word, but I can say I greatly dislike him.
This is my Tale.
Strawman? Not so much anymore, I'm just stating my opinion.