All's fair in love and war. But I give you points for moral fiber
agreed lol...imo, its a cruel world...if you see something you want, go for it.
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Maybe, but if theres someone I'm interested and if she is with somebody that I think does not deserve her i would not hesitate to attempt to attract that person.
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Well, that is good, because you're basically displaying your view on things, and it's up to her whether to accept it or not. If for her relationships are a rather fleeting and unstable thing and she's looking for the better and better male, you'll be interesting for her. And she'll drop you just as fast for the next male.
On the other hand, if that was me, I'd ignore you...
I can sort of understand your position, though. Some couples are totally not worth supporting and you look at them and say "WHY is she with that person?!?!"
I have many friends who are with women and men who really do not deserve them. But it is strange how we are attracted to that, like women who return to abusers and guys who return to control freaks and so on...
OMG, don't, believe me if you want to have a slight chance then simply do not do what she tells you to do, even when she thinks she wants you to, she doesn't, she will just lose any respect she had for you.
I don't know what she thinks of you normally.
Shes not playing games, she doesn't know i know most of this stuff because her best friend is my best friend lol....
Normally im just a friend, i want to be more than that...Btw just got done hanging out with her, it was a stagnate step....ugh..
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Shes considering you. good. However, does she know that you are there waiting for her to make up her? if so. stop. Girls want a challenge. Its all about the way you carry yourself. Act like you dont care even if you do. Sometimes you have to play the game.
Sorry to hear that. Yet honestly, don't you think V-Day may be a bit predictable? If I were you: Think of a unique plan of action, even if it is for said date.
Shes considering you. good. However, does she know that you are there waiting for her to make up her? if so. stop. Girls want a challenge. Its all about the way you carry yourself. Act like you dont care even if you do. Sometimes you have to play the game.
I've found that there is a fine line between bold and foolish. If you are too confident you might end up looking like a complete douche. I agree though, show her some balls and she may end up slobbering all over them like that dog in the sandlot
This has happened to me a lot the past two years. It might be different in your case, because they just played with me. A lot of people I know just had to do things that person liked. There are many ways to get a girls attention, you just have to find the right one.
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I'm naturally a confident person so i actually have to hold back a little bit cuz she doesn't like cocky.
but ya, plan of action is acting like i dont care....talking to other girls in front of her helps as well lol...
when I say considering, she told her friend that she would maybe go to prom with me, but im not supposed to know that lol...
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though i have only read your origional post and about one sentence of the first page. i just wanted to give my opinion. okay. so from what i know. is that you really like this girl but she isnt really into you. dude....ive been there. lol. and i fucked up by not making my move and we became good friends. actually i became her best friend. lol. odd ya. but dude. just be yourself. and just be open. i did that. and now i ended up in a relationship. so just be you. and you do just fine.
Punch this girl in the mouth just once. You don't want to be a chronic abuser, but you'll need to hit her at least one time to make a believer out of her. Then she will be fully submissive to you and make you Baked Alaska.
Punch this girl in the mouth just once. You don't want to be a chronic abuser, but you'll need to hit her at least one time to make a believer out of her. Then she will be fully submissive to you and make you Baked Alaska.
Lol..for some reason I feel compelled to not do that Siaynoq.
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She might make it for me..this is true..But I probably won't enjoy it as much in prison :'(
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You know, it's pretty difficult not to like someone, just because the circumstances surrounding you are not desirable. What I mean is, if you really like this girl, but she's a huge bitch to you, doesn't like you, but regardless, you still like her; it isn't a piece of cake to just "unlike" her, if you know what I mean. From what I get of your ordeal, is pretty similar to a lot of boy/girl crush/like scenarios that have come passed me (not to sound like a mentor or anything). What you have to understand, is that a girl will know, subconsciously or consciously, if she will ever go out with you, from the first or second encounter with you (or any other guy, really..I'm talking solely about you). I can also guarantee that any given girl, upon looking at you, will make up her mind, and so withing the first 5 minutes, if you're cute, dateable, and worthy (in her eyes of course). After saying all that, there's something really fishy going on, so that that girl just suddenly likes you, is considering you, and wants you to work for her. Know this man; 99% of girls wants the guy to work hard to get them, where the remaining 1% are just easy girls who'd pretty much hook up with anything with a penis. The difference is, some of that percentile are bitches, and others are good girls, who just don't want to rush into things, so eventhough they like you, they want you to go out with them, but can't simply do so quite hastily, y'know? The scenario which you typed out is pretty ridiculous. It's either that you're a last resort guy (the guys she has placed in her "Dateable" list aren't giving her the time of day), or she's just doing it to gloat about it, and make you chase after her (As painful as any of this may sound, it's more than likely the truth..I've been through all this shit, I should know). Now I know that you will read this, and because it's something that you do not want to read (refer to the beginning of my post..you can't "unlike" the girl no matter what anyone might say, and no matter what the hell is oging on) and will just dismiss it and go through with it. Think about it though; once you get her, are you sure you can keep her? Just as you have worked hard to get her (although not a single male should "work hard" to impress/get a female, and vice versa) you will more than likely have to work hard to stay with her. A relationship shouldn't involve "hard work" in the negative gist of the term, but should be fun, romantic, and pleasing for both parties. You are bound to find a girl whom you will like unequivically, and one whom will like you equally as much, and make you happy; all it takes is time, for there is someone for everyone, and that I know for certain. You have went out more with her (group outings, as I understand) and after all that time, all you got is "she's considering me, but not even close for it to be a sure thing". My ultimate advice? Drop it. Do you want to have fun, and make sure? Make her chase after you. Don't give her the time of day. If you can, get another girl (although this really is a pretty assholish move) just to tease her, show her that she means little to you. Make HER come after you. YOU play hard to get it. Eventually, you will either get her, or you will have your little revenge.
Good luck.
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agreed lol...imo, its a cruel world...if you see something you want, go for it.
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"I don't want to be the product of my environment. I want my environment to be the product of me." (no idea)
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On the other hand, if that was me, I'd ignore you...
I can sort of understand your position, though. Some couples are totally not worth supporting and you look at them and say "WHY is she with that person?!?!"
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Shes not playing games, she doesn't know i know most of this stuff because her best friend is my best friend lol....
Normally im just a friend, i want to be more than that...Btw just got done hanging out with her, it was a stagnate step....ugh..
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"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
Sorry to hear that. Yet honestly, don't you think V-Day may be a bit predictable? If I were you: Think of a unique plan of action, even if it is for said date.
Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
And Murder is right, there is a fine line.
I'm naturally a confident person so i actually have to hold back a little bit cuz she doesn't like cocky.
but ya, plan of action is acting like i dont care....talking to other girls in front of her helps as well lol...
when I say considering, she told her friend that she would maybe go to prom with me, but im not supposed to know that lol...
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"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
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Lol..for some reason I feel compelled to not do that Siaynoq.
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She might make it for me..this is true..But I probably won't enjoy it as much in prison :'(
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Good luck.
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