When I was younger I always would say "stop that's annoying" or, "ohhh I'm so sorry" or, "I feel so bad for you!".
I've grown and started to think more, and I realized most of those things never DID actually annoy me, I never WAS sorry (whether I did something or they told me their dog died), or I never DID feel bad for that idiot who crashed. I don't understand why but people pretend they feel bad or they're annoyed when really it doesn't affect them at all, they move on and only later suddenly believe it annoys them for some reason, when actually it doesn't.
My moms always says "I feel bad for them" when something happens to people she hardly knows/doesn't know. It's a think people do, but 90% of the time they don't actually feel bad for them.
How do you prove if someone actually does care or not? Well, you can't proove it yourself. The only way to proove if they actually do care or not is if they admit they don't and come to realize what I have said.
If you all think about this really hard you'd see what I'm getting at.
P.S. - How much of a discussable thread is this? I don't know, it's more informative and to make people think. Should it go in spam or not? I don't think so. Will it be much of a discussion thread? Not really. It's definitly niether spam nor flood though.
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
There are going to be times where it's always a good idea to act like you care even if you don't though, just to be safe. As to when those times are, I'll let you people figure that out on your own.
Exactly Murderface, people are hardwired to say those things, and my point is to show them that, as lots of people know they're hardwired to say those things but don't think of it when they ARE saying those things... confusing lol. I've taught myself not to say those things anymore unless it's one of those conditions where I should just to be safe (so people aren't mad at me, etc.)
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
When I was younger I always would say "stop that's annoying" or, "ohhh I'm so sorry" or, "I feel so bad for you!".
I've grown and started to think more, and I realized most of those things never DID actually annoy me, I never WAS sorry (whether I did something or they told me their dog died), or I never DID feel bad for that idiot who crashed. I don't understand why but people pretend they feel bad or they're annoyed when really it doesn't affect them at all, they move on and only later suddenly believe it annoys them for some reason, when actually it doesn't.
My moms always says "I feel bad for them" when something happens to people she hardly knows/doesn't know. It's a think people do, but 90% of the time they don't actually feel bad for them.
How do you prove if someone actually does care or not? Well, you can't proove it yourself. The only way to proove if they actually do care or not is if they admit they don't and come to realize what I have said.
If you all think about this really hard you'd see what I'm getting at.
P.S. - How much of a discussable thread is this? I don't know, it's more informative and to make people think. Should it go in spam or not? I don't think so. Will it be much of a discussion thread? Not really. It's definitly niether spam nor flood though.
All I heard was you trying to be all knowledgable. Just because you said something interesting in another thread doesn't mean you actually have to make another one.
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I think it's discussible. I've found it kinda strange when people say things they might not mean, unless it's in one of many special circumstances (hyperbole, comedy/sarcasm, lying for a goal), so personally I don't really say things unless I mean them (unless in certain circumstances), which of course is a logical thing to do, heh.
An issue that seems similar, but is a bit broader/different, is when people are kind of acting nice but aren't really. This can be either an intentional fascade, or they could just be weird and just express themselves in a really strange mix of actions and expression.
At first I thought a teacher I had in high school was sort of the fascade-type person (the only type I thought existed), but once I think about it, maybe some people are just weird that way, and don't necessarily do it intentionally.
All I heard was you trying to be all knowledgable. Just because you said something interesting in another thread doesn't mean you actually have to make another one.
Point is, if I'm unable to understand what you say based on the posts within the thread itself, mabye it's time for you to consider taking this to PM.
When I was younger I always would say "stop that's annoying" or, "ohhh I'm so sorry" or, "I feel so bad for you!".
I've grown and started to think more, and I realized most of those things never DID actually annoy me, I never WAS sorry (whether I did something or they told me their dog died), or I never DID feel bad for that idiot who crashed. I don't understand why but people pretend they feel bad or they're annoyed when really it doesn't affect them at all, they move on and only later suddenly believe it annoys them for some reason, when actually it doesn't.
My moms always says "I feel bad for them" when something happens to people she hardly knows/doesn't know. It's a think people do, but 90% of the time they don't actually feel bad for them.
How do you prove if someone actually does care or not? Well, you can't proove it yourself. The only way to proove if they actually do care or not is if they admit they don't and come to realize what I have said.
If you all think about this really hard you'd see what I'm getting at.
P.S. - How much of a discussable thread is this? I don't know, it's more informative and to make people think. Should it go in spam or not? I don't think so. Will it be much of a discussion thread? Not really. It's definitly niether spam nor flood though.
I have just one bone to pick. you said that it doesn't actually effect anyone. Maybe your stone cold, but some people are very emotional and take losses sometimes of others that they don't even know very hard. that's just one example. How can you say that those things don't have an emotional effect at least on others? At very least, women will be effected. Naturally humans are sympathetic. This is why people say things like "sorry your dad died" cuz they sympathize
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I saw you reply in the thread but I forgot what you said. I know FoF fretting with powertab and stuff sort of... I've read puppetz guide but he misses some things. Overall I'm not really concerned with that at the moment.
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
All I heard was you trying to be all knowledgable.
I am very knowledgeable, thanks.
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Just because you said something [I]interesting [/I']in another thread doesn't mean you actually have to make another one.
I did this for the solo purpose of more people seeing what I had to say, as most people don't really look around in spam forums, let alone one post in a stupid thread :).
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
I have just one bone to pick. you said that it doesn't actually effect anyone. Maybe your stone cold, but some people are very emotional and take losses sometimes of others that they don't even know very hard
That's what I said there is no proof that they don't feel bad for them. I just strongly believe that the majority of people do not feel bad.
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
I have just one bone to pick. you said that it doesn't actually effect anyone. Maybe your stone cold, but some people are very emotional and take losses sometimes of others that they don't even know very hard
That's why I said there is no proof that they don't feel bad for them. I just strongly believe that the majority of people do not feel bad for them.
Here's a good example (of course no way to proove to you):
I generally don't care for people whom get killed. But here's one thing that does sadden me, and I can't explain why. I can't remember the story well but it goes a little something like (true story in a city near me or something):
This man was stuck in an english airport and didn't speak english, no one spoke his language around and he was lost and confused, supposed to meet his mother or something. He eventually got very angry and started throwing stuff around, the police came and tasered him. It makes me feel bad because he was suppose to meet his mother, the main reason why it makes me feel bad.
Why this makes me feel band and not someone smashing into a tree? I can't explain it, really. It's just how I personally work. But I still strongly believe that generally most people don't care for most accidents/deaths.
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
I think it's discussible. I've found it kinda strange when people say things they might not mean, unless it's in one of many special circumstances (hyperbole, comedy/sarcasm, lying for a goal), so personally I don't really say things unless I mean them (unless in certain circumstances), which of course is a logical thing to do, heh.
An issue that seems similar, but is a bit broader/different, is when people are kind of acting nice but aren't really. This can be either an intentional fascade, or they could just be weird and just express themselves in a really strange mix of actions and expression.
At first I thought a teacher I had in high school was sort of the fascade-type person (the only type I thought existed), but once I think about it, maybe some people are just weird that way, and don't necessarily do it intentionally.
I have a weird philosophy in life : I do not lie on purpose ever for any reason; I find lying tiring and it's never really worth it; the point I wanna make though is that having such behaviour will make other people hate you. Like if someone is not very nice looking, I refuse to lie and try to sound like a nice guy by saying he's hot; I'll tell him he isn't the nicest looking guy on earth BUT I'll actually give him advices on how to improve his look and everything. I'm honest yet people will hate me for not lying.
I did this for the solo purpose of more people seeing what I had to say, as most people don't really look around in spam forums, let alone one post in a stupid thread :).
Stupid huh? Are you kidding me? I made a rant about why I think rants are stupid, and you call that stupid...
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I am very knowledgeable, thanks.
Let me say that again: All I heard was you trying to be knowledgable.
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99.9% of this taken from a post of mine in a topic:
I've grown and started to think more, and I realized most of those things never DID actually annoy me, I never WAS sorry (whether I did something or they told me their dog died), or I never DID feel bad for that idiot who crashed. I don't understand why but people pretend they feel bad or they're annoyed when really it doesn't affect them at all, they move on and only later suddenly believe it annoys them for some reason, when actually it doesn't.
My moms always says "I feel bad for them" when something happens to people she hardly knows/doesn't know. It's a think people do, but 90% of the time they don't actually feel bad for them.
How do you prove if someone actually does care or not? Well, you can't proove it yourself. The only way to proove if they actually do care or not is if they admit they don't and come to realize what I have said.
If you all think about this really hard you'd see what I'm getting at.
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P.S. - How much of a discussable thread is this? I don't know, it's more informative and to make people think. Should it go in spam or not? I don't think so. Will it be much of a discussion thread? Not really. It's definitly niether spam nor flood though.
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
And yes I do love my ability to turn a 6 paragraph long post into 1 sentence.
And what I said is more less one paragraph, but since it's only one paragraph I break it up just to make the post cleaner.
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
Exactly Murderface, people are hardwired to say those things, and my point is to show them that, as lots of people know they're hardwired to say those things but don't think of it when they ARE saying those things... confusing lol. I've taught myself not to say those things anymore unless it's one of those conditions where I should just to be safe (so people aren't mad at me, etc.)
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
All I heard was you trying to be all knowledgable. Just because you said something interesting in another thread doesn't mean you actually have to make another one.
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An issue that seems similar, but is a bit broader/different, is when people are kind of acting nice but aren't really. This can be either an intentional fascade, or they could just be weird and just express themselves in a really strange mix of actions and expression.
At first I thought a teacher I had in high school was sort of the fascade-type person (the only type I thought existed), but once I think about it, maybe some people are just weird that way, and don't necessarily do it intentionally.
Fuck you, I'm a dragon.
Thank you.
I understood what he said, I just wanted to say what I wanted to say instead of replying to what he said.
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I have just one bone to pick. you said that it doesn't actually effect anyone. Maybe your stone cold, but some people are very emotional and take losses sometimes of others that they don't even know very hard. that's just one example. How can you say that those things don't have an emotional effect at least on others? At very least, women will be effected. Naturally humans are sympathetic. This is why people say things like "sorry your dad died" cuz they sympathize
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
Alright...........
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"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
Here's a good example (of course no way to proove to you):
I generally don't care for people whom get killed. But here's one thing that does sadden me, and I can't explain why. I can't remember the story well but it goes a little something like (true story in a city near me or something):
This man was stuck in an english airport and didn't speak english, no one spoke his language around and he was lost and confused, supposed to meet his mother or something. He eventually got very angry and started throwing stuff around, the police came and tasered him. It makes me feel bad because he was suppose to meet his mother, the main reason why it makes me feel bad.
Why this makes me feel band and not someone smashing into a tree? I can't explain it, really. It's just how I personally work. But I still strongly believe that generally most people don't care for most accidents/deaths.
"Cards and flowers on your window, your friends all plead for you to stay,
sometimes beginnings aren't so simple, sometimes goodbye's the only way."
Stupid huh? Are you kidding me? I made a rant about why I think rants are stupid, and you call that stupid...
Let me say that again: All I heard was you trying to be knowledgable.
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