I never wish to have "a shot" at any of them. I wish I would bed a few of them a few times, but I make the logical and often proven realization that these are humans who portray a different character (if they are actors). in their personal life they may suck as human beings, and since they are in the spotlight they understandably get shittier and shittier, character wise. What I am saying ultimately is that either way, at least in the case of most actors, the person you got mesmerized by is 99% scripted character, for all you know you are in love with a fat middleage guy who has written that character. So if they are not happy with roleplaying everyday a character they already spend lots of time doing, you may want to reconsider having someone like this in your life, especially since this means idiots like you scrutinize every aspect of their life, including yours if your are in their shoes.